Is it normal not to know if the girl wants something serious with you?

Well, I go out with a girl. She is so cute and we have been friends since January 2019. We're hanging out together and 'wrapped up in a relationship' since January 2020. Right now I wanted something more serious with her, because I like her and I wanted us to have something serious and firm. However, I don't know if she wants to a serious relationship with me, we never talking about that and nowadays we seem to be a little 'off', I feel strange. Should I talk to her and expose it without fear?

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Based on 9 votes (6 yes)
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  • ellnell

    Um. If you don't know if she wants this a year later she doesn't. Also there's such a thing as communication, you ask someone this or say what you want/need/feel and then the other person tells you how they feel. You have not done this though so the likelihood that she's put you in the friendzone now after this long is guaranteed.

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  • CDmale4fem

    A couple different ways that you can try. You can try little joking around that includes comments about you and her being together in a year or 2. Or just straight up tell her how you feel about things kind of stagnant and not growing forwrd together. If you feel like you have real feelings for her - just make sure she does not have a more serious somebody in back of her mind. But above all NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS - BE A REAL MAN, TREAT HER WITH THE SAME RESPECT YOU WOULD WANT HER TREATED WITH IF SHE WAS YOUR DAYGHTER. Respect her wishes, thoughts and feelings. A REAL man can and will do that. But for now JUST BE HONEST WITH HER, Dont lie, cheat or take advamtage of someone you care about. Enough said.

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  • farkelu

    After a year, I hate to say but you're in the friend zone. In fact, you're the MAYOR of the friend zone!

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  • Mammal-lover

    I would say talk to her. Always the risk of pushing her away though

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