Is it normal not to have sex in a relationship?

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I been wondering this I dated this one girl 3 years, another 2 years, another one 5 and the last one 3. (By the way i dated more girls than that just longest ones i had) Out of all the girls I dated never had sex with any of them. I was wondering about it so I looked up my exs called or email them. They all said about the same they didn't know why. It ain't like you didn't try it just didn't happen...... So what y'all think?

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    O_o all but these words elude me at this time

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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    I'd prefer a sexless relationship. It'd make me feel better knowing that she's not just using me for my body. And as long as it's a mutual thing, then I'd know she wouldn't go seek sex elsewhere.
    People are too sex crazed these days, and put so much emphasis and importance on it, that it can ruin relationships one way or another.

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    • YouKnowWho
      11 years ago

      Bravo, bravo!

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    • ssrdnx
      11 years ago

      That's what ended the relationship cause they did run off had sex with other guys but wont with me

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      • davesumba
        11 years ago

        Ah yes, then there are those girls who use one man for his personality and other men for their bodies. Sorry to hear that, from my experience most girls are just looking to have fun and nothing too serious, but they do want to maintain one "boyfriend" (and can't go a month without one) at all times to always be there for them, be nice, and tell them they're beautiful, but then have no problem cheating on them with other guys just for the sex.

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        • Aliceee93
          11 years ago

          Ergh I know a guy who was with a girl and she went and had sex with someone else. He forgave her she did it again :/ then he got back with her and it last a long time until she did it again.. And apparently she loved him ha! But yeh once a cheat always a cheat.

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          • ssrdnx
            11 years ago

            Ain't much on forgiven God forgives I don't when I caught them I gave them the boot beat up the guy bad part about it beat up my brother twice and my dad once

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        • ssrdnx
          11 years ago

          I guess but I'm tired of been the shoulder and not the lover.... also when I was looking them up to ask them about this subject the Guy they cheated on me with they r marry with kids or one on the way

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          • davesumba
            11 years ago

            Ah yes, that brings me to a sub category of this type of girl, who will take the first person who comes along to be nice to them, even though she has no intention on remaining faithful, and will more or less actively look for someone better, who they have more of a connection with. (nothing against you, you just weren't her type).

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  • TheGirlWhoStoleHisHat
    11 years ago

    I know this probably isn't remotly helpful but I think you're adorable, well your post is adorable, maybe not necessarily you.

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  • follow_me_down
    11 years ago

    perhaps they didn't have sex with you because you never pressed it or discussed it? You sound respectful, perhaps you just attract girls looking for comfort not sex?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Are you really smelly?

    Maybe thats it.

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    • ssrdnx
      11 years ago

      I take about 3 to 4 baths a day 1 when I get up one after going threw the hogs another depend if I sparyed anything last one before I go to bed

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  • SuperBenzid
    11 years ago

    Sounds like they were just using you for money. Seems the only reasonable explanation.

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    • ssrdnx
      11 years ago

      I never gave them a cent

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Holy fuck, how old are you?

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    • ssrdnx
      11 years ago

      Between. Ages of 18-30

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      • Justsomejerk
        11 years ago

        So you've spent 13+ years in sexless relationships?

        That's like
        "so lets fuck tonight, honey"
        "No thanks, I have a headache"
        4745 times.

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        • ssrdnx
          11 years ago

          No it was like this start kissing. Then start finger her then try to go farther they wanted to stop after been finger

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        Just from the way you talk it's obvious why.

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        • ssrdnx
          11 years ago

          What u mean

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    it's normal if the couple mutually agrees they're just not that into sex, but from what I can tell about your relationships? not normal. It's also worrying that it happened more than once :/

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    • ssrdnx
      11 years ago

      What u mean worrying

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      • quentari
        11 years ago

        that so many women date you, don't have sex with you for YEARS, then cheat on you.

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        • ssrdnx
          11 years ago

          What I never got y not me always someone else

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          • quentari
            11 years ago

            It makes no sense at all :(

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  • eatableyou
    11 years ago

    I wish that too

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  • jaylan
    11 years ago

    Its weird to ask an ex, " y didn't we have s@$" or whatever. I think its good not to have s@$ in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. I think people should wait until marriage. If u had it with a girl and u 2 were only dating, if u broke up with her, she would have been single..... with a baby.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    Its u and ur family mainly ur great grandfather he would call u in midnight of the night go to still u would jump up and go don't matter who there or what and now u we all think u don't have a soul u don't laughter at anything we went to the blue Collard tour u didn't laugh the whole time u was there and ur temper is bad u had one ur cuz came running to u crying saying her bf hit her and it was ur gf brother u lost ur cool didn't listen to the whole story u ran off beat the shit out of him that boy can't even walk right anymore cause of that it took 6 people to pull u off of him ur nothing but a country boy thug with no emotion

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    • ssrdnx
      11 years ago

      I want u to call cent u think u no me y did u write it anonymously.... I didn't no u could do that

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      • charli.m
        11 years ago

        HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

        I love it when people don't know how to use the anon button.

        You're foolin no one, honey.

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        • ssrdnx
          11 years ago

          ????

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  • harrocakes
    11 years ago

    You're gay

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    • ssrdnx
      11 years ago

      Now y would u think? Just cause they didn't want to have sex with me

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