Is it normal not to have lost it yet?

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I'm a shy reserved girl, I'm 21 and haven't 'done it' yet. Infact I've never had a boyfriend. I've always lacked confidence and through school I was quite chubby. I lost it all when I grew so tall and got braces. I'm confident with my body but not with the fact I've never been with anyone. Who is going to want someone who has no experience and who is shy? I know a lot of people have relationships from like 16 but I've never been out looking, I've fancied guys and been on dates.. I want to get married and have kids but it seems it will never happen :( because you have to go through a few guys before you find the one? I'm 21 and haven't been with one yet! But I've had interests in a couple of guys so do they count?! I'm so worried I won't find anyone :( the older I get the worse it will become.

But I just thought I'd meet someone and click.. Where as a lot go out drinking and hit it off.. I'm not one for that :( I wouldn't say I'm ugly either but not many have tried to get my number :( I can't let my personality shine through at the start somehow. I'm worried because I feel like I need to start soon, even though my dad said one day someone will come along and you'll just click.. And my mum said what's for you won't miss you.. Help please?

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    21 is not that old. If your a one guy kind of woman then there is plenty of time to meet Mr right.

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  • stopandthink
    9 years ago

    Goodness sake you're 21 calm your tits! What you said about having to go through a few guys before finding the one is ridiculous. I'm younger than you and don't intend to have sex aside from 'the one', and I'm not that inattractive either.
    Just relax, I'm sure someone will come along.

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    • RoseIsabella
      9 years ago

      I know dat's right, she got ta calm her titties, baby!

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  • chained_rage
    9 years ago

    Stop. Just stop.

    Live.

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  • theseeker
    9 years ago

    I wouldn't worry too much. My guess is you're probably not a very social person. So the first thing you could do is try to get involved in more social situations. Guys are supposed to be the ones to approach the girls so if you get out more there's a real good chance a guy will ask you out.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    I haven't lost it yet but it should happen any day now.(my mind)

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    9 years ago

    Your not going to spontaneously combust if you don't lose it. Move at your own pace but you have to get yourself out there. Men aren't going to line up outside your door to court you.

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