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Hey, so I'm just wondering if it's normal to not have any pain when u first have intercourse with somone. Mabey uncomfort but no pain? Is it possible to be born withought a hymen or cud this b due to a sports injury? Thx
I dunno, my first time didn't hurt, though there was definitely blood and I was really surprised, I was waiting for the pain but it never happened. I didn't realise he had broken it til he pulled out and there was blood there.
Sweetheart, every girl is different. A hymen can be any sort of shapes. I definitely suggest you watch this video on youtube. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA (You can't POP your cherry (Hymen 101)- lacigreen) It's a really great video because it shows you just how that part of your body works. Not to mention, a women's hymen can get more relaxed if she uses tampons or masturbates regularly before her first time.
As for me, I didn't feel pain in my vagina when I first had sex. In reality, because I wasn't expecting all of the muscle contractions that take place, my back ended up hurting for a whole day after my first time. I attribute this to being tense and not relaxing. Especially if he has a large penis. You'll definitely want to take it nice and slow. OH! And use lots of lube if you're scared of it hurting.
No it's not unusual to only feel discomfort and not pain. It was very painful me though I bled quite a lot. xx
no blood or pain for me, just discomfort. Some people aren't born with intact hymens and theres a huge number of things that could have broken it (tampons for example)