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So. Why won't I have an orgasm? I try really hard and when I'm with my bf or just by myself I rarely have them. It feels soooooooo good when I do.,, anyone have any tips of some sort about sex or masterbation? And no judge ments!!
Listen to your body. Do what feels good, go at your own pace, and you'll make it there.
It's simple, really. You just need some patience, is all.
firstly you need to relax, the more you worry about it, the less of a chance you are going to have of reaching the big O. spend some time on your own, get comfortable, set the mood right, whether you use candles and incense, or even while you are watching porn, whatever you like then let your fingers or mr buzzie do the walking. once you have figured your body out with what you like and how you like it, then show your boyfriend. it might take a few tries for him to get it but when he does, you will both love it.
but the most important thing to do is relax. even if know what you like and you are stressed, you wont reach the big O. speaking from experience.