Is it normal not to feel the same about the boyfriend that came back?

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Okay so me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 2 and a half years. i was always there for him. We have been on and off through our whole relationship and hes the one that always ended things. Then he would come back and i would take him back. but everytime he broke up with me i always wanted ehim back so bad. I felt like i needed him. I put up with alot of his head games and him being rude and mean to me. Recently he wanted me back more then ever. He realized all that i did for him and he loves me. And for some reason im confused on how i feel. I dont get why i dont feel like i used to. I literally felt liike i needed him and now its liike i dont really care. But when we fight i wanna make it better cause i wanna be with him. But sometimes when im with him i dont feel strongly about him like he does towards me. I dont know whats wrong with me! i want to want him again and idont know if i do or not!

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  • Geneva5
    12 years ago

    Smoke a joint and just fucking relax already !

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  • gloomydust
    12 years ago

    Something like that happened to me. Take my advice cause this will actually help... But you should break it off this time, or reject him. When you do that, he'll realize that he can't play games anymore because you're in control of yourself. Guys hate that... But eventually they learn on their own. You have to put him on his feet. Set him straight. Right now he feels like he has the right to mess around with your head but showing weakness is the worst. Be strong :)

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  • stars_mari
    13 years ago

    Dont go back.. Guys are dumb. What I think is that he probably had another girlfriend at the same time and he didn't care If you guys broke up, but now the girl broke up with him so he has no one to be with so that's why he act like that

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  • oinkangel
    13 years ago

    Well I think ur scared of wanting him the way you use to and him doing the Same shot he's done in the past so you've made like this emotional barrier that blocks you from feeling him the way u use to avoid getting hurt like you use to u still have that love for him u just made it sit on the sideline to protect yourself from the things he's done to in the past bracing yourself incase his bull resurfaces

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