Is it normal not to connect with anyone?

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let me explain; im about to finish my first year in college and i honestly believe im a nuisance to everyone i talk to, even my best friend. I dont like the way most girls present themselves, and most guys only talk to me if they want something. sadly, i dont have alot of close friends. this bothers me because i feel like ive had great friends before, and now im at the point where i cant connect with anyone. im not trying to say i think im smarter, or im stupid. i am nothing. (not in the depressing way) i have no idea how to act the way society wants me to act.
also, when i do feel as if i belong its always with the help of some median. alot of the time, when im with a group of people i find myself wondering why they talk the way they do, or why they mention certain things. when im not thinking this, im acting like my happy self which ends with people looking at me weird. i just dont want to be friends with someone who tries too hard to not be themselves..which is ironic.
i have no idea if this is normal to most people and everyone is better at hiding their feelings.

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Based on 23 votes (17 yes)
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  • TeenUndead
    12 years ago

    I was the same way, but then I started mingling around with more people and found one person like me and then more with his help. Now the two of us are best friends.

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    Sometimes You just have to be yourself and tell the world just to fuckin accept it. Look at me, im an anxious, paranoid, loner poet, and when people dont like me, or I think they dont like me( I cant tell anymore), I just say fuck them. And leave roadkill in their mailboxes.

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    • Stanisit
      5 years ago

      How do you avoid people then if they’re in your social circle. Im not close with many of my friends as much anymore and some people you’ve explained are always with them. It leads me to have to pretend to put up with them but it makes me a lot more isolated

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