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When my bf licks me, I don't ever come. haven't once. and i dont ever come when i masturbate with my fingers. its like i cant reach in. 'normal' sex is okey. Then i come
Am i normal?
im the same too. i can make myself come bur not by fingering myself but by rubbing my clit. ive been having sex for 7 months and ive been eaten out billions of times but i never cum
Well the first guy who did that to me didn't make me come, then again even through sex I didn't come, though I still relatively enjoyed it.
Even when my current boyfriend first did it for me I didn't come, though now I almost always do, I think it's just a matter of him getting to know what gets you going more and him being more confident, also you need to relax and enjoy it! If he does something you really think feels good, let him know! Then he'll also enjoy it more and it will be better for everyone involved! :D
Just like your nurse/doctor tells you just before a shot, this is going to sting a little. You didn't say how old you are. There's a great possibility you are not sexually/physically mature enough to achieve an orgasm right now. Or you could be not sensitive or mature enough to recognize it. There is also the possibility of unconsciously holding it back due to feelings of an underlying guilt or fear however minor. It took one of my sisters two years of sex with her more experienced husband in order to have an orgasm. I dread using clichés, but you seem to not be relaxed enough for some reason. If you are as young as you sound, my advise would be to wait until you are a little older before having sex of any kind or expecting the big O.
Yeah.
Contrary to belief, it is not easy for A LOT of girls to get off. It's not as simple for a girl as it is for a guy.
I can't get off unless I have constant clitoral stimulation.
Get a clit vibrator. They're fantastic and little and fit right over your finger.
i'm no expert, but i think we're all a bit different in being aroused and pleased. i happen to come pretty quickly, but i've talked to other girls who have to work at it. i think your pretty normal tho.