Is it normal not to be able to love?

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My best friend finds it really hard to love. She feels like she's in love with someone one day, then the next she regrets it, then half way through that day she thinks that she's getting better and doesn't regret it as much, then she gets sad and depressed for the remainder of the day, which sucks really. Also who she decides to love changes on a day to day basis, but she can't help it. Please tell me if this is normal or not, because it's hurting too much to see her like this :'(

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Based on 23 votes (9 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    guarantee she had issues with family growing up. Many kids have mixed feelings about what love really is when parents have poor communication skills, stay together for the kids, or when kids are abused and told later Mom or dad loves them for an appology. Love the word can mean differant things for differant people. Ask her what the word really means to her and at what age did she understand what love was, Then ask her the deffinition of Love!

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  • Glambamx3
    13 years ago

    If she is changing who she loves on a day to day basis, it doesn't sound like she is mature enough to actually "love" someone.

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    • Its_Called_Love
      12 years ago

      Agreed, you're friend should just enjoy dating and leave love out of it for now.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    that doesnt mean she cant love? just means she cant keep to one loved one

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  • justanordinarygirl
    13 years ago

    Your friend just seems to want to feel a love for a person that isn't there (the love, that is). It seems that your friend needs to try to control her emotions a little bit better and try to find somebody that can reciprocate her feelings for them.

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