Is it normal not to admit your current relationships with your ex?

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I have a hard time admitting to my ex-bf everything about my love life, sex life and subsequent relationships after we broke up. IS THIS NORMAL?

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Based on 38 votes (27 yes)
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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    Rub it in their face!

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    Well why? Do you still have feelings for him? Or do you just not want him to feel bad?

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    None of his bussiness.

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  • xxwrong-as-rainxx
    11 years ago

    I avoid all that by cutting ties once i break up with someone :p

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  • hermione
    8 years ago

    Why does it matter, nothing to do with him

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  • oldbird
    11 years ago

    its normal not to want to hurt somebody. But if he finds out youve lied youll feel like youve done something wrong. is he asking you ?if so tell him you are not obligated but you are a decent human being

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  • KatsukoKatastrophe
    11 years ago

    If someone is your ex, then you should not care what they think and it should perfectly fine for you tell them you have moved on. Unless you still have feelings for that ex. And if you do still have feelings for that ex, you shouldn't be in a new relationship anyways.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Why do you feel like you should tell him that in the first place?

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  • ravenna
    11 years ago

    When my ex asked if I was dating anybody after him, I was tempted to say "No, it's none of your business." However, I decided I wasn't afraid of what his reaction would be, and proudly announced that, "Yes, I do have a boyfriend." Because it is true, and I have no reason to hide it.

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    • VioletTrees
      11 years ago

      My ex got so mad when I told him I had a new boyfriend. Then, two or three years later, he blocked me when I mentioned I'd gotten engaged.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    no it's not normal part of moving on is telling your ex about how happy you are without them. Not telling them may mean you still have feelings for the ex

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