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Is it normal to refrain from giving a guy a blowjob on the first date?
I would never think of expecting a guy to go down on me so early in the relationship.
I don't think its not normal, but I wouldn't do it personally. I know from personal experience. I gave a guy a blowjob at a camp, but then he would only call me afterwards just to 'hook up'. And I did it the first couple of times because I liked him but then I was like whoah I want this guy to ask me out not just be his fuckbuddy. So I told him either ask me out or this will stop. He never did ask me out. Hmm freshman daays. But anyway that proves to you that guys don't want to go out with some girl who is easy, I hope they would want some girl who keeps their dignity and doesn't give in soo quickly.
I wouldn't expect a girl to give me a blowjob on the first date. But, I wouldn't lose respect for her either, if she did so. I believe that's entirely up to her, and it has nothing to do with how much respect she has for herself.
That said, if I liked her, I would be quite pleased if she did so, especially if she was very skilled at it. If I didn't like her, I wouldn't let her.
I will lose respect for a girl who purposefully withholds sex, in order to achieve some goal or serve some manipulative purpose, or who engages in sex because she feels it's some kind of duty on her part.
I go down on a girl because I enjoy doing so. And, it makes no difference if it's the first date or the 100th.
That is 100%% normal!
Why would any guy ask you to do that on the first date. It just shows that your genuine nice girl who isn't too dirty.
if a chick blew me on the first date, I would be dissapointed b/c she is obv not gf material. Prolly would enjoy it during tho lol. But seriously i prefer a girl who has some self respect
Personally, if I went on a 'First Date' with a girl and she offered or initiated a BJ at the end of the night, I would feel that she was 'easy' and I would not want the relationship to proceed any further. I'd think to myself, 'How many guys has she done this to in the past?' and the probable answer would be, 'Many'. Make them wait a little, which would also prove to you that they like you and are not just dating you for sex.
You don't know anybody well after just one date. If you don't know know and trust someone well enough after a first date to, say, lend them money or let them drive your car, how can it be appropriate on a first date to let them penetrate you and infuse you with their bodily fluids. Have some respect for yourself. You should not even have sex on a first date. Unless you want to spend your life being used for sex.
Congratulations!! You actually have some self respect. Stay that way! Any guy who seriously expects this is a nasty piece of shit.
any guy taht asks for a bj on the first date should get punched in the mouth.
GIRLS WHO GIVE BLOW JOBS ON FIRST DATES ARE SEXY AND HORNY I DON'T LOSE RESPECT FOR ANY GIRLS WHO ARE LIKE THIS