Is it normal not sure if i'm gay or straight?!

Well I want to start off by saying I am in love with a boy in my grade, and I can't think of a second when I'm not thinking about him. However, I find myself fantisizing about making out with a girl or even going further. In the future, I feel as if I might act upon those fantasies as a one time, spontaneous thing. But I would NOT want to be in a relationship with a girl or anything like that.
So is it normal to think like that? Am I gay or bisexual?
P.S. If it makes a difference, I am a teenager. Thanks!

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Comments ( 21 )
  • Internecine

    You're just trying to work out your sexuality. It's normal to do that. None of us knew we disliked a certain food until we tried it.

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  • im attracted to pamela anderson, megan fox and angelina jolie, and Silk, the best looking stripper ive have ever seen, but i could never have a relationship with them, i couldnt even have sex with them, i just find them hot as hell and super sexy. Im also attracted to mathew macconagheuy, any menshealth magazine cover dude, and most canadians, and i definitely could sleep with them and have a relationship with. hmm i forgot what my point was, dang!

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  • coug444

    I feel the same way! Idk if I am or not

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  • rayst

    Wow if you want a guy to be interested in you, tell him exactly that!

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    • Jakki

      Why?

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  • iHeartDinosaurs

    I agree with Internecine. Your just trying to figure out your sexuality. Your just trying new things, which is normal. But I think you may be Bisexual, which again, is normal.

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  • penguin7

    maybe give both a try you don't know until you have tried.

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  • CreativeThinker

    Its so simple u r an Asshole....

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  • Ur bicurious

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  • hemper

    I would say take the identity of being Bisexual for now. I mean its ridiculous if you think this guy is sensitive and great yet you don't want to acknowledge that just because you want to place yourself into either the straight or gay category.

    You can place yourself into one of those categories later, but for now you can have some fun ;)

    and to close I want to impart on you this one quote i just love:
    “Your mind can be changed, your heart can be swayed, but your penis is very stubborn.” -Jon Stewart

    in other words your penis will tell you indefinitely what you want :P

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  • jigglypuff26

    You could be bi but you should try both and see what happends.

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  • BoredGuy

    normal for teenagers to be confused some times cause of the hormone changes going in their bodies, as is also normal to have many fantasies that in reality we don't want them to happen. since you are in love with a guy go after that for now, if you still wanna experiment with girls when your hormones are balanced then go ahead.

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  • aristotleismarvelous

    i feel the EXACT same way. i have an amazing boyfriend that im in love with but recently ive been wanting to try something sexually with a female. i think that probably when im a little older and i find some more mature friends, ill explore my sexuality and finally decide what i want. dont rush, consider the possibilities, and dont feel like you have to label yourself. good luck love :)

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  • LifeCanBeHard

    is that guy like reallllllllly hot or nice ?? if so you may be attracted to his personality or looks or something P have you ever been attracted to any other guys, if so your probs bi. if its only him then you ma just be ga for him and him only,

    your probably bi if you think about other guys as well but also girls

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  • 1skatman1

    u may be stright with same sex fanticys

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  • I got a lot to say... I completely understand you. I've actually never had a sexual experience with a girl but I've had kissed plenty. But I have had a sexual experience with a boy. I've always believed that I'm bi but my stories are controversial. Hopefully you find out that this guy you love is somehow bi-curious or bisexual at the least.
    Hope you figure out everything and "straighten" things out.

    PS I'm a middle aged teen. So if you need any more help, contact me. :)

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  • randomjelly

    Sexuality is not based on who you want a relationship with but who you are attracted to. If you like both..then great. Don't push so hard to label yourself and just be you.

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  • Well if you don't want a relationship with a girl and are thinking about this guy all the time then you are gay. You are just confused about what you want.
    Hope I helped!!

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  • LifeCanBeHard

    is the guy that you like also gay?

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  • mia1478

    Your gay

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  • wreckd

    I personally think you're straight. You just want some experience sexually with a girl. Totally normal and I advise seeking the adventure at least once.

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