Is it normal nobody told me i look good?

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im a guy of 23 and so far nobody ever told me i look good or compliment on my look , even my parents never seems to have told me(maybe they have told once or something and i must have forgotten it, i dont know). im Asian look like Filipino or Vietnamese 5.5ft tall skinny (but not like stick and bone thin) face shaped like a diamond with high prominent cheek bones flat nose thick wavy dark hair dusky skin some acne on my face. i see people happy and in a relationship once i almost dated but even the person told me im ugly but lovely somehow not appearance wise (i think that is just to make me feel not so bad)so i think im ugly although i like to think i look good at least a bit. so what should i do to accept myself as plain ugly and not get hurt by my look. i like an honest reply no matter how brutal it maybe.thank you

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Show a pic.

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  • Decorum
    7 years ago

    I am just as old as you and never have I ever been complimented either (but I am guy). Unfortunately I don't have any good solutions or whatever for you, but I can tell you that you are not alone. :p

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  • helpful_demon
    7 years ago

    aw, I don't think you look bad! I bet you look great! it's too bad that other people don't seem to think so. you're taking a good step, by trying to figure out how to accept yourself. I don't think you have to look at it as accepting that you're ugly but maybe accepting that you're a different kind of good-looking. unfortunately, there doesn't seem to be as much in the body positive movement aimed specifically towards guys, but there's definitely some resources out there you could check out. your looks don't define your worth as a person, but you deserve to feel comfortable, confident, and happy in your own skin and allow the awesome guy inside to shine through. I hope this helps, and best of luck, friend! :)

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  • fuckingfool
    7 years ago

    I recognize it... not knowing if you look good or bad because no one ever said something about it. You can show me a pic and i will be honest to you.

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  • ThatScarletteGirl_
    7 years ago

    I think you look really good. You don't need others opinion about your looks. They like to judge only. You should always be confident about yourself. Don't let your insecurities let you down like this. People likes to judge but if they judge negatively, doesn't mean that you should believe them too. You should first try to love yourself then people will also begin love you.

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  • FORUMidableFuckthemods
    7 years ago

    What killme said , fuck them tell them they are too rude and should fuck off instantly.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    If you live in America, then ya, it sounds to me like you don't really fit the ideal criteria of beauty TBH. Not saying that to be mean. I'm on the same boat as you my friend.

    Anyways, physical appearances carry far more weight for females than for males, so it's not the end of the world if a guy is a bit ugly. An ugly guy can still be respected and adored if he has outstanding charisma or accomplishments. Just look at that Casey Neistat (I personally don't like him, but other people do) vlogger guy. He looks like a koala mixed with a rat, yet he's one of the most adored people on the internet right now.

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    • Boner_Face
      7 years ago

      You seem to worry too much about "looks", albeit with reason as in the average American woman is VERY vapid and shallow regarding this. But that doesn't mean you should give up totally OR come across as having done so.

      Focus on enjoying your own life, in whatever way that you can. Women will be attracted to this. The average American woman actually thinks they are "equal" to men. This is total bullshit, hence the shit tests they continuously give out to men.

      Just live your life and like yourself. Don't worry about attracting a "knockout" at all. They aren't worth the stress.

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  • lilbabybear
    7 years ago

    I'm pretty sure you look decent, but looks aren't everything. In my opinion the only way someone could be ugly is if their personality is shitty. One day someone will love you for who you are, despite your flaws. c:

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