Is it normal nobody likes you

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The people who do like me know the real me because they accpet me quickly and so i feel the courage to show who i really am. But sometimes, no MOST OF THE TIME, i just show up somewhere and people are already looking at me like they dont like me-look at me and look away in a sad way. So i test it, and make a joke and nobody laughs. Not that im a bad joke teller, but people make dumb silly comments and everyone laughs just cause and with me, everyones like uhhh anyways or whatever. I think it just has to do with popularity and no matter what they do or say, others will support them in some way. If the person is not likable and they say something charming or smart or funny, no one really likes it because its who they are that is preventing from being likeable. Why? I dont have a group of close friends or anything so no one really knows who i am so nobody has a reason to not like me because theyve never hung out with me, talked to me, whatever. ITs probably rumors but of what? If NOBODY knows me!!!! So if nobody knows me and i said something funny or charming, then it should be likable despite who i am because they dont know me!!!! I dont understand honestly. I feel like everybody where i live and stuff does know who i am, heard of me from rumors which cant be true because nobody knows me!!! Its really annoying and im young but that is it, im young and i should be having fun with friends and people liking me but nooooo. Something on my face says DONT LIKE ME or something. Ive also heard i look intimidating so i have that in my mind but still, its not fun especially when youre an open minded person willing to be friends with anybody but nobody likes you so that makes you dislike them and from there is a different story.

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  • xino00
    13 years ago

    damn man!

    i can understand some of the things you say.

    That is why I always keep my mouth shut when I meet people i don't know.

    you know, the secret is to understand how they talk, if you can master it THEN you can know the sort of person they are without having to judge them.

    If you keep shut and listen more, you can tell when a person likes you or not.

    For an example, you know this girl hanging around with a group, you say hello she says hello. But she gives all her attention to her friends and tries to ignore you.
    Another day you see her alone and say hi, then she spends all her attention to you and talks a lot. By now you would be surprise.

    This should be no surprise to you because she is obviously using you! A lot of people do this, when they are alone and see someone they know but do not care about, they would decide to communicate with that person just to eliminate the purpose of being alone.

    So I suggest you "talk less and listen more". Another pointer is don't reveal all your personality to someone, let them know about you little by little. If you meet someone you can trust then you would know when to let her know all about you.

    Trust me man, you have to master the art of listening and talking less. If you do this right, you would know who to talk to and who you shouldn't.

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  • Mxzysptlk
    11 years ago

    Yep, the first guy put it best. You've got to see yourself as a hot commodity and you've got to understand how to play the "game" unfortunately. 1) Don't allow people to use you 2) Know when someone is real vs. fake. A lot of people, in my opinion, are fake and will try to use you if they get the chance. Also, insecure people tend to attract narcissist that see their insecurity as a way to "dominate" and control that person. Remember, you're a good person too and you've got to give off that badass I don't care what anyone thinks bravado. If you do that people will naturally be drawn to you because of that confidence. And try working on actually not caring what others think lol. Play your cards right. Personally I don't care what a person knows about me, facts are meaningless without reasoning behind them. Even if people know things you've done DON'T allow them to know why you did it. And if you get caught lying admit that you lied but come up with a story to deflect people from your reasoning. And sometimes it's okay to allow yourself to be "used" as long as it's for a purpose. Follow your intuition about people...usually this is right. I know this sounds kind of crazy but it's just the way life is...you gotta look out for yourself a lot of the time.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    *those*

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    cant doubt with hose results btw im not the person that posted this story.

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  • almostunreadable
    13 years ago

    @xinoOO: great reply to the OP man!
    I learned something from it too!

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