Is it normal nobody gives a shit what i go through

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I have to care for my Gf, she has a disability and needs care all the time, we have a 6yo son I spend all my free time playing sport with him, I work seven days a week as a community support worker and get paid shit all money, we don't get paid for travel time or petrol, I rent a shity little room in a share house. I would think people would say I was doing it tough and feel for me but every one thinks I'm a worthless ungrateful asshole and they treat me like shit, so much so that I want to kill myself, it's not me I'm worried about its my son and his mom.

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  • Beastmodementality
    8 years ago

    Hey maybe I'm just encouraging this but the man has the right to complain.Everytime someone's got problems someone has to compare you to someone with worse problems,I can see how no free time to breath and let go and dealing with you love being incapacitated might bring you down,keep fuckin lookin for opportunity bruh,people are asswholes,what they say isn't worth money so it shouldn't mean nothin to ya.

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  • loopiesoupie
    8 years ago

    I'm sorry that you're going through this and it's really hard on you. If people are telling you that you're not a good person when you know you're doing the best that you can then just ignore them and stay away from them. The reason that what they said hurt you is most likely because apart of you believes what they're telling you. Is there something that you feel guilty about? Do you feel like you're a worthless ungrateful asshole? If not then just ignore those people and don't even care about watt they say. Don't let it get to you and just keep doing what you're doing. You have a wife and son that love you! I think the economic system will collapse soon. The monetary system is unnecessary and it causes all sorts of problems. The government is corrupt. Everyone is one, even science says so yet people perceive themselves as different and often better than others because the way the media has triggered people's egos.

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  • horny_simpletons
    8 years ago

    Sadly a lot of people are assholes and invalidate other people. I've had people invalidate my problems, even after I clearly stated it could be worse, just because they didn't like me as a person. Don't mind them, it's their problem.

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago

    Suck it up cupcake, if you are unhappy with your current job, resign and get a new one! You are not a slave, you don`t have to wait until somebody sells you. tell your employer to go fuck themselves and leave.

    A new career is waiting for you!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Yeah, your right, good thing I've got that MBA.

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  • mangohango
    8 years ago

    Why the hell would anyone care about your idiot problems when they have their own? you are NOT special.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      But why do they have to make shit harder for me?

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  • handsignals
    8 years ago

    1. Why the fuck would I trade my past with some fucking Syrians.
    2. If it wasn't for the magic of TV you and I wouldn't even know these refugees existed.
    3. I'm not on my own, my girlfriend has Addison's disease and we have a 6yo son.

    I'm fucking sick of hearing about other cunts in other countries have got it tough and I should fucking pay to help them, they can sought their own shit out.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    I suppose you'd rather be a refugee from Syria or living somewhere in Africa, caring for your gf with no job, no home (a cardboard box?) and absolutely no prospects?
    You should make the best of what you DO have going for you, not bemoan those things you don't have.

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    • handsignals
      8 years ago

      That's Bullshit when those refugees get to Oz they get a free house and money for nothing, mean while there's people who were born here struggling to survive.

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        Actually, 'those' refugees aren't getting anywhere near Oz these days, and if you think the concentration camps the Aussies have set up in Nauru and PNG are picnic parties, I think you'd be wrong.
        In this case however, I was speaking of those living in refugee camps all over the Middle East, Northern Africa and Europe. Hundreds die daily.
        I just read exactly what a migrant accepted into Germany gets, and it ain't luxury accommodations nor a free ride. From what the OP wrote, he definitely has it better than they do. Plus, after 3 months, a migrant can still be sent right back to where they came from!
        I suppose the OP would gladly change places with one of them and end up back in Sub Saharan Africa or Syria?

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        • handsignals
          8 years ago

          Wrong dumbass, those camps are for people entering the country illegally, Tony Faggot has agreed to take some refugees as a one off.

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          • thegypsysailor
            8 years ago

            Just because you can't manage very well on your own and would love a government hand out, would you really trade your past with that of the refugees, just to get it? Now THAT would really make YOU the dumbass, wouldn't it?

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    Man i feel sad for you （´＿｀）

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    You need a better job.

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  • omghahahawasbannedisback
    8 years ago

    That's called life.

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