Is it normal no real friends & no social life

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I fit in ok at school,I have friends and talk to people around me. But as soon as we're off the bus I leave them behind and sit at home alone.i have no social life and stay at home all day and all night. I don't really like the people I talk to anyway but I'd love to be out.im not very good in social situations, I struggle to listen and get excited really easy and lose my temper alot,soon I'll be leaving school and getting a job so I'll be away from everyone at school and will have absolutely no friends

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Based on 84 votes (60 yes)
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Comments ( 8 )
  • GlassDarkly31
    12 years ago

    The most important relationship you have in life is the one you have with yourself. Everything you'll ever need you have within. Search for it with earnest and you'll never need anything else.

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  • Mellifluous
    11 years ago

    It's normal. Some people just aren't sociable; I'm exactly the same. Just try to contact them every now and again to go out. The more you leave your house, the more comfortable you'll be.

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  • ChasingAfterPond<3
    12 years ago

    Its depressing, but normal. It is hard to find true friends. I have.. One. A different person i know is a runner uo though. If you want to go out, just be couragous and ask some people if they want to go out and do something(: good luck (:

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  • purplegirl22
    12 years ago

    I was the same way. I have one good friend, other than that I'm alone. But hey I like to be alone (personally thats just me) I emphasize grades more than a social life. I mean it would be nice to have some more friends but i'm still working on it. In the end do whatever makes you happy.

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  • Alaska
    12 years ago

    Well, I love being alone too. Actually I love to go out with my friends. I rather to stay home. The important thing is that you are happy. It doesn't matter how.

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  • blackmesa
    12 years ago

    I had a couple of good friends back at my homeland, I recently moved and I don't really have any ''real'' friends. I mean, I can go out partying on weekends just by asking, but I don't like that much any of the persons I go partying with. I don't even do normal things, just go out partying from time to time on weekends. The rest of the time I'm alone. But I'm not too sad about it. I just don't fit with these people. I guess I'll know someone someday. But in the mean time, I try to hang out with anyone.

    One thing that is clear to me is that you have to ask for going out as much as you can; people are probably as scared of asking you out as you are. And they probably are as bored as you are.

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  • blackalica
    12 years ago

    Why can't we be friends? Why can't we be friends? Why can't we be friends? WHY CAN'T WE BE FRIENDS?!?!?!

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    If you really dislike being so alone then try making plans with your friends. What I mean is that you shouldn't wait for others to invite you to hang out, you should invite them. True friends are hard to come by these days, but if you put in the effort to acquire friends, then I'm sure you'll meet someone you can trust. I hope that you eventually have the social life that you want.

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