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Ive found out that my young sister who is only 14 has been having lesbian sex with her friend who is 16. My parents don't know and think she is an innocent young girl. I don't know what to do?
It's totally natural and normal for girls to try lesbian sex. I have known of girls 12-13 years old having lesbian sex. It's fine!
Lol I first had girl on girl sex when so I think your sisters good. Atleast she can’t come home pregnant lol
Your first mistake is thinking she is "an innocent young girl". Even at 14 y/o we girls know what we want in sex, and who we want to have sex with.
Your second mistake is thinking this is any of your damn business - because it isn't (unless you want to sex your sister too).
And, your third mistake, is that you haven't had sex with your sister yet. I mean, come on, be the best sibling you can be and properly teach her to do sex. She'll be open to the experience of the 2 of you sharing love-making; especially if she is having lesbian sex... she'll really like incest sex.
Damn, you're lucky.
its fine , little girls just like the boys experiment with sex and any sex is sex. its harmless . It doesn't create a sexual identity. At least she cant get pregnant and thats pretty cool. just ignore what you know and go on with life. if you had a sex life of your own you would understand completely. Children have sex like it or not. Besides im sure your parents had sex when they were children, so what makes you think they give a shit?
Its not your responsibility to rato her out. Unless you dont like her. She needs to know you and others care about her.
What is it about this that bothers you? Would you still be upset if she was with a 16 year-old guy? Is it a healthy, positive relationship for your sister? Are the two girls happy together, or do you feel the older girl has manipulated your sister into the relationship? Do you have a problem with lesbians in general?
I think you need to be very careful. If you snitch on your sister, that is going to affect your relationship with her, and her relationship with your parents.
Fourteen is very young to be having sex of any sort, but I think you should only tell on her if you are certain the relationship is harmful to her. And having sex with someone of the same gender is not, in and of itself, harmful.
Just let her be happy. It's not your business unless you know she is in real danger of being harmed. At least you know she isn't going to come home pregnant one day. Just let it go. No need for your parents to know. and if she happens to confide in you that she is lesbian, don't go outing her to your parents or the world. She will come out in her own time. But the decision of where, when, and how needs to be on HER choosing. It's great to be a concerned brother. If you really want to be caring. Just tell her you know and that you support her sexuality, whatever it may be.