Is it normal my wife won't let me touch her tits?

Me and my wife started dating about 6 years ago, and we have been married for 3 and a half years. Before we got married and have a kid, we used to have sex 3 times a week. Now it ranges from 0 to 2 times a week.
Is it normal that she would not let me touch her tits? She only lets me is during sex, and even then, I only get to hold them steady. She would not let me do anything else (such as licking, kissing, squeezing etc...)
The nipple area is forbidden altogether.
I don't think it's normal, but I would love to get your feedback.
Thanks

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22% Normal
Based on 317 votes (71 yes)
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Comments ( 17 )
  • Sweetz

    That's what boobs are for! touching, licking, and sucking! Okay and maybe a little bit of biting, or maybe a lot ;) try to work something out like that you won't touch her boobs in public if she allows you to try new things during sex. Using ice feels real good...dam i need to shut up my mind is wandering *_* ..

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    • Cowishu

      Freeking pervert

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  • wayne69

    How does the age of the woman play into it. My wife and I have been together 33 years and 3 kids, the youngest is 16 and my wife just in the last year or two has asked me to leave her nipples alone.

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  • wayne69

    How does the age of the woman play into it. My wife and I have been together 33 years and 3 kids, the youngest is 16 and my wife just in the last year or two has asked me to leave her nipples alone.

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  • Kaicam75

    I'm with you. Only for me, sex went from weekly to every 9-12 months. It's currently been 10 months. She keeps saying she is going to get help, therapy, etc. She never follows through. Now I'm having an affair. I need out.

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  • don1988#

    Do not fuck her if she is not allowing to suck you on her tits.....if this idea doesn't work then she needs psychological counselling

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  • Longjohn137

    Before I married my wife, she allowed
    Me to touch her breasts when ever I
    Wanted. Let's face it breasts are very
    Beautiful, why wouldn't I want to touch?
    She was open to trying new things in
    Bed also. She would also play with me.
    Now she has lost her libido and won't
    Let me touch her breasts very much.
    Doesn't have much interest in sex
    Anymore. This is our second marriage
    For both of us and we don't have any
    Kids together and our kids from our
    First marriage have grown and moved
    Out. So there is no excuse there!
    I still have a high sex drive and I am
    Going crazy because I don't want to
    Get divorced again but we are so
    Missed matched sexually now. It almost
    Seems like she did what she needed
    To do to get me to marry her then
    Put on the brakes after. I hate to admit
    This but I have been to get a body rub
    Several times because I miss the touch
    Of a woman. I have discussed with her
    Many times that we need to get back
    To the way things were. But it has fallen
    On deaf ears. I have tried being romantic, nothing in return. I am not
    Lazy, have a decent job and help
    Around the house. She is not a bad
    Person, don't get me wrong. She is
    Very kind to my family and works
    Very hard at her job. But the sex thing
    Is a big part of a relationship for most
    Men. I don't think she understands
    How close I am to leaving.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    you need to communicate with her. find out why she feels this way.

    perhaps she is overly sensitive and tender there

    or perhaps she only associates sucking and licking with breastfeeding, so that it either grosses her out or she feels it may make things awkward if she ever breastfeeds.

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  • AssBurgers

    Maybe you should get a new wife.

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  • NerdyChickFTW

    Maybe they are tender all the time, and she is afraid to admit to you that it hurts when you touch them? I don't know, not normal. Most girls want their breasts to be touched when intimate, so I don't really understand.

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    Have you asked her why? Maybe she has a reason such as tenderness?

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    • gal669

      She says she doesn't like it.
      I don't know if there is a medical excuse for such behavior... :-)

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      • Captain_Kegstand

        Hmm, well I guess everybody has their own likes and dislikes!

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  • GuessWho

    All (straight) guys are obsessed with boobs.
    I think it's unacceptable for her to deny you access to one of the things about her that you really love. (as long as you're not trying to grab at her in public)

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    • gal669

      I never tried to grab her in public. I would never do such a thing

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    • Captain_Kegstand

      Strait guys, gay guys, women, boobs are a beautiful thing!

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  • Justsomejerk

    Tough break. I feel as if my boob love is going unappreciated too.

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