Is it normal my wife only likes quickies?

My wife has complained to me that sex takes too long. I was surprised after 12 years of marriage that she would rather have quickies. I feel like it is just a way of speeding up sex so she can get it over with. Maybe I am wrong but that is how it makes me feel. I have tried to oblige her but for me quickies are meant to spice up things, sneak away from the kids or something like that. She believes that there is nothing wrong with having a steady diet of quickie only sex and I am having a difficult time with it.

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  • MeSoBig

    ARE YOU INSANE?!?! Quit complaining! I LOVE quickies! It's so fucking hot for my wife to just drag me into room, get on her knees and say, "Fuck me hard and make it quick."

    I almost cum just unzipping! It's only happened ONE TIME EVER, and I wish it happened much more often then that.... mmmmm Let's trade wives for a week

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    • N3VVRmiNd

      I'm sure it would get boring after 12 years though

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  • She's in a hurry to get to her boyfriend's.

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    • urnn

      yes he is way better fuck, and he has plenty of time to please her.

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  • Questionable_Mode-1

    Ok, this is meaning that it's a job for her... not a pleasure. I am saying this from experience. This will continute to be a JOB if you as the man dont take more control and step out of the box of sex and be open about asking her what pleases her and how she would desire to have her breath taken away. And I mean litraly. Her breath being taken away does not have to be intercourse. A lot of good meaningful, enjoying sex is well suceeded with warming up the engine. Kinda like a car. It works better and is more enjoyable when you can take good care of it and warm it up so it'll treat you good in return. If you start up and go all the time, it's going to catch up with you and break down quicker. I'm sorry ladies for putting us on the line of cars but realistically... its kinda the truth.

    If you allow it to be a JOB for her then that's all she will continue to see it as being ment as. Has she given you the "foreplay dont work on me" response? well, do it less there fore when you do encounter any kind of chance, your foreplay will prove it's pleasure and bamb! she'll want and want and want you... just gotta wait it out so she'll enjoy it more and this way it can teach that being in bed for a while or with you in that sense is OK and can be fun like it was ment to be.

    Good luck. But just keep in mind, all women are different and it's nice to get under your spouces sexual skin to please them in different moods. Maybe she's expecting just the same'ol same'ol... some women do better with a little change and it pulls the young fun side out of them sometimes and it just makes sex all the more meaningful.

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  • Penguin_pie

    It`s not normal, but it depends on what you mean by quickies. I personally don`t like having sex for longer than 15 minutes. After that it gets dull and boring. But if it were like, 2-3 min each time, I wouldnt be happy with that either.
    Sounds like she doesnt like sex and just wants to get it over with ....UNLESS you ususally take a really long time and a `Quicky`` for her is like 10-15 min.

    If youre askoing if it`s normal for women to not like sex....yes.

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  • Uzzie101

    Fuck that it's your sex too. If you want long, then go long. But have quick sex for her aswell sometimes.

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  • loyally

    She must not think it feels good

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  • jose01

    May be she wants a quickie and then later takes her time to masturbate while your asleep this happens alot

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  • pandabear094

    Talk to her about it

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  • ccjigsaw

    She's not enjoying sex. Ever tried giving her a bit of oral before hand? She probably needs some extra foreplay. It's not al about the sex for us women. And if you skip it for to long, we don't want it anymore. Talk about complicated I know, but the sex part is boring for some ladies

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  • Gardenia

    Nah dude. There's so passion, you need to talk to your woman. Be straight up, tell her you want some passionate sex some foreplay.

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  • jensapa

    Maybe she gets to tired an doesn't have the energy for long drawn out sex.

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  • softboy

    Sounds like she wants to get it over with. Tell her to shut the fuck up a stick your cock up her ass perhaps she will prefer it.

    On a more serious note I don't sound good. Perhaps she fucking around when your at work beware

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  • soulsailor

    Trade her In

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  • Alexbj

    Yes it's normal. She gets to see how fast she can satisfy you

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  • SometimesYes

    I'm a woman and I have to agree with the woman who says she likes it fast and hot. Not 2 minutes but not 15 .. Maybe 12 .. we have plenty of cuddle time but when sex is involved, We seem to like to dive right in and some women orgasm quick. After a couple of those (always,)I'm satisfied and so is my husband so then we go on to cooking dinner or the rest of life. I'm 57 and he's 71 .. no blue pills, we're both younger looking / acting and we've been together for 19 years. We still love each other dearly and sexually. Quickies have always been fine!! Some women are turned on quicker and get there quicker! I'm one of them. Don't bash us for being this way.. we are actually lucky!

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  • lovetolickwifesass

    my wife likes it hard and fast

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  • Humbleking

    Seriously, from own experience, buy a strap on, hollow or not, but bigger than yours... My wife now craves to be fucked... longer.. deeper... more often... and I get to enjoy seeing her give herself away, and then do her afterwards... win-win for both... She now says (contrary to what she used to say) size matters... And why would I not want her to have fulfilling orgasms... And I know it is not because mine is small, she being wider... she only enjoys bigger than average more.. ;)Good luck... That she wants sex at all is a good start..!

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  • juanangel01

    I know it sucks and get her drunk a few times a few not trashed just tipsy and on tequila and have at it haha tequila makes women horny

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  • dutchy

    I love quickies! if it goes on for to long I start feeling awkward.. quick and hard all the way

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  • NotRecognizable420

    I am a woman and i perfer sex that is quicker and more intense than long and drawn out and i love sex. I dont think this has to mean ahe just wants to get it over with. Long can be boring, and the samw position for too long can start to feel like nothing.

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  • lemonlime37

    She's obviously getting bored with sex and only doing it to please you. I go through phases like this with my boyfriend. When I get bored I'll make excuses or try to hurry it as much as possible so I can get on with the rest of my day without feeling guilty over denying him. But to be honest, I find it extremely irritating when I've had my fun and my partner is still going :/

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  • This is actually normal. A female friend of mine only wants quickies, she actually complains that her boyfriend takes too long.

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  • just_a_gurl

    We women are some strange creatures. For some of us its mostly mental that gets us going an in the mood. If your relationship is not going too well in any other areas it leaks into the bedroom. I have nothing against a quickie..at all but I prefer sessions LoL drag it out mentally first..whisper in her ear out of nowhere something erotic and sexi..something just to feed her mind and let it linger..start an stop it dead...make her talk to you tell you why she prefers a quickie..ask her how you can make it last longer for her. Open communication is the key.

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  • toys4us

    The occasional quickie is fun and should be spontaneous. Not a regular occurrence.

    When you say a quickie how quick are we talking? Sounds like she has a problem weather with you or your sex. Get it sorted talk to her I would be very upset if my wife said that to me. I like to think I please my wife but that would seriously knock my ego.

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  • curiousJulie

    Have you put on a lot of weight recently?
    Just a thought. ;)
    x

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  • Sweetz

    She wants excitement. Try new places out to have quickies.

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  • in cosmo., there was an article that said quickies turn your man on and leave him wanting more... do you get cosmopolitan LOL

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  • Gardenia

    No passion*.
    I hate typos, I feel like an idiot:/

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  • juggalette

    Ur pee pee is to small and she cant orgasm

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  • PabloLewis

    Id say mate,GO AND FIND YOURSELF A GAY FRIEND!! AND LET HIM GIVE U A BLOWJOB,SWALLOW UR CUM,AND RIM YOUR ASS!!! Id STARVE HER OFF SEX!!! ROTTEN AUL COW!!! Xx

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  • oscard

    What ever you do don't listen to Gems. She obviously is a man hater you does not like sex. She may be more tolerant, I am sure this is not what you are looking for. She is obviously one that has sex as a duty, doing you a favor. I understand your situation, I have been there.These comment of foreplay, and g spot make assumptions that probably are not true. The brutal truth is, you married someone like Gems and all the foreplay, clean sheets, and g spots will not change anything. I have been where you are, my ex had orgasms, that was not a problem, we had lengthy foreplay she was just raised one way and I another. Some women, like Gems, were raised to be frigid.

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