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my wife is the drummer for my band and well she got us a new look (all of us wear clothes that show the legs stomach arms and for the guys chest) im not to fond of it cuz where a normal band (till now) but i dont wanna disapoint Alice what do i do? and is it normal that she changed it?
| yes | 5 | |
| no | 6 | |
| i think you shoulda wore the old stuff | 12 | |
| is it a hot look? | 21 | |
| im voting on this pole cuz im bored | 12 |
just told her theye suck now she sorta hates me but my oldest son sorta laughs at this i wish he wasnt my son and he was much older i would knock out his teath (JK)
how did she even manage to do it without getting everyone's permission first?
It may be normal for one partner ti control the other, but it's not right.
well, why not? i played guitar in a less-than-good all-girls-band as a teenager, and on stage, it tends to be rather hot(temperature-wise), so actually those "revealing" outfits may simply be comfortable, and possibly look good as well(can't tell without a picture of course).
*shrug* if the other guys are with her, though luck, maybe reconsider if it's really so bad if you are the only one that doesn't like it?
please show the pic, i cannot imagine what it looks like, legs stomach arms & chest showing, is it a pair of shorts?
Just straight up tell her. She's your wife, and it's not like you want to hurt her feelings. Though maybe the clothing does look good, I haven't seen it so I can't tell you. Also, yeah I think it's normal for your wife to change it, though I'm not so sure about her choice. You and your band could also just take a majority vote.
Take some photos and say you polled us and we thought you were all ridiculous looking.