Is it normal my wife avoids my hugs and kisses

Does she have nostrils.

It could be true, maybe she is just not an affectionate person. If she was before, then yourrelationship probably just changed. Now i dont mean that in a bad way because all relationships change with time. Whereas before she might have shown she loves you by having sex with you all the time, now she would show you she loves you by cookin you dinner or packing a lunch or you in the morning, etc. You have children now so your roles have changed dramatically over the last few years. raising kids is draining and many women become irratable. There are a lot of women who lose their libido after having kids. If this i the case it is something to see the doctor about.

Also, a lot of men i know have trouble seeing a connection between how much you help your wife around the house, etc., and her affection level. Maybe shes irritated that she feels like shes always doing everything alone. Ie, do you help cook/clean/ watch the baby? Nevermind setting up romantic dates and evenings, because she doesnt sound like she is at a point where she would enjoy that.

Whenever i have felt a lack of affection like that for previous boyfriends, its usually because there was something about them that was really irritating me. I you can handle criticism and want to save the relationship you should have a calm conversation about whether she feels there is anything more she needs from you or if she feels that something is lacking. Does she know how youre feeling? Maybe she doesnt feel like this issue is a deal brewker for you?

Since you guys are married and have kids i think you should try for some kind of concelling first before you decide to get a divorce.. Maybe it could help you. Best of luck..

How did you screw the three letter word hug up 3 times you piece of shit, maybe she doesnt like u because your an idiot

Umm, if you have married and had two kids with the women I think you should know if she loved you.

Are you my daddy?

Sounds like she needs therapy

That was brutal reading, hugs like this.

Hugs not drugs. First I thought you were trying to saying nag, as in she is a big nag. But then I said to myself, "patties what the hell are you thinking, no women ever nags any man, ever"

If she isn't engaging in actions that show love, and it's making you upset and uncomfortable, look for someone that will (after divorcing her ofcourse).

WHy should you have to put up with not being able to engage in the things you want to with your partner? You needs matter, not just your wife's, so if your needs aren't being satisfied, then you should leave and look for someone that will satisfy you.

She might not be a affectionate person or liked to be touched. However, I wonder how she managed to let you impregnate her with the prior in mind.

It's "hugs". You had it right in the title. But I am not trying to pick on you here, this sounds like a painful situation. And no, it's not normal.

Next time you try to hug her, yell at her saying that you want her, hug her tightly with passion, don't let her go, and kiss her like they do in movies. Let your passion guide you (in a good way). :)