Is it normal my vagina is too tight???

I lost my virginity to my ex-boyfriend and after the first time, it hurt everytime until he broke my hymen. Then i almost had sex with the current guy i have feelings for but i was so tight he could'nt get inside me. He said i was tight like a virgin, but i didnt have sex 3 months prior to that. Is it normal for my vagina to be this tight and how can i make it a little wider?

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Based on 14 votes (12 yes)
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  • shuggy-chan

    CALLLED FORE PLAY PEOPLE, gosh

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    • sasamarie

      I always do foreplay and it still hurts....

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    That's normal. A lack of activity will cause your canal to shrink a bit.

    However this can be overcome by two things
    1) your age - remember women don't stop developing until they're 25 or so. So if you're younger than that you may still be under-sized inside.

    2) your level of sexual desire - as your desire increases your body produces more lubrication and the canal itself will actually widen. if you try penetration too soon before this then it may be a bit uncomfortable.

    in other words, it's OK - and actually better - to have more foreplay before you get into being poked.

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  • Bite down in something and just get him to push harder. If he grabs into your hair when he does it, y'know, give it a good pull as he's squeezing in, that could get him a bit deeper.

    Maybe if he bites your back a bit, that could help.

    If he still can't get in, then let me have a go. I'm sure I can open you up.

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  • quentari

    Foreplay.

    Seriously if I had a dollar for everytime some chick said "my vagina isn't big enough!" YOU CAN GET A BABY OUTTA THERE YOU CAN PUT A PENIS IN THERE.

    Just friggin prepare first. Foreplay. Lubricant. Whatever works.

    Sorry this question is so common even off IIN I hear it a lot -.-

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  • ygrowup

    Foreplay and lube

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  • Dad

    Age?

    I agree foreplay and lubricants.
    Plus your vagina will expand over a 20minute period of reaming it out!

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  • FocoUS

    Vaginas can tighten up again with time especially in athletic girls. Lubricants?

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  • Avant-Garde

    Ask your gynaecologist.

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