Is it normal my two guys

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I am single, and I am seeing two guys. One of them definitely wants to be my boyfriend, the other is long distance (we've been texting for a month but I've only met him twice). The long-distance guy, lets call him Ant, is very funny, cheeky, laddish and handsome. I really have fun with him. Whereas the guy from my uni, Dan, is absolutely lovely and so into me but we don't quite have that back-and-forth taking the piss thing that I have with Ant. Dan is a very handsome man but without that spark I don't really feel a physical desire for him. Is it normal to keep seeing him even though in all honesty my heart is kinda waiting on Ant? I have a great time with Dan and I know he does too, and he knows I don't want a relationship. So is it unfair to keep dating him, even though I've been honest and he knows I'm seeing someone else too? I know he really likes me, and that all Ant wants is a good time and some laughs, whereas in all honesty I think Dan is falling in love with me.

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  • Para-Normal
    9 years ago

    Sounds like you've handled right. Just keep it real with him.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Enjoy yourself with as many bfs as you like.

    I wouldn't expect you to be sleeping with anyone you weren't serious about though - that constitutes a real relationship in my mind.

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  • Wonderlost
    12 years ago

    Your simply testing the waters dear. So, yes, it is normal, all the way.

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    You are allowed to have your fun with anyone who's willing, especially when you tell them the facts of the matter.
    Its all just fun that's all. Continue on.

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