Is it normal my teacher does the things he does?

My teacher, who I have a huge thing for, does things I dont think teachers normally do. He winks at me a lot, and has nicknames for me like His Goober, Cuddlebug and other things that include my name which i wont say. In my yearbook last year, he wrote, "It is awesome to see you grow as a student into a beautiful young woman. I cant wait to have you next year in Math. I hope I see you over the summer!" He has given me higher grades then I deserved, and said I passed everything I needed to so I could pass to the next grade. Maybe he is just being nice though? He makes excuses for me to stay after school or go in early in the morning. When he has lunch duty, he sits on the other side of the lunchroom at the table with other teachers but constantly looks over at me. In class, he he sends out little hints and when he helps me, he either gets really close to me or he brings a chair so close enough so his leg is touching mine. During class when he teaching a lesson, he will look at me the most. He asks about my interests, what i want top do when I am older, my hobbies....everything. He works at a college I wanted to go to, and he told me I should really try to go there. He compliments me on hair and my clothes a lot. He picks on me a lot, in a good way, and always tries talking to me, like stopping me in the hall. He stops by my locker sometimes too. Is he flirting or just being nice?

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  • KeepsakeDoll

    Only red flags for me would be the leg touching (unless it was accidental) and awkward pet names.

    Other than that he could just be an overzealous teacher. As for your high grade, maybe you're actually doing well in the class. If you want to test that out then purposefully fail something then.

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  • reminiscent

    Some things are normal like what he wrote in your yearbook is fine...the other things are not good. I hope you do not get into any relationship with this man...at least not until you have graduated.

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  • well i wouldn't start anything with him because he has a wife and two kids....one of them only two years younger than me. And yes, it is happening like I described it. And maybe yeah, sometimes it is about homework other times he just talks with me. Maybe he does that because he is alone and doesnt have a good marriage?

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  • slings_and_arrows

    Is it really happening the way you are describing? You say he makes excuse for you to come in early or stay late...that sounds dodgy, but maybe he has reasons like he needs to explain homework you got wrong. If he doesn't do this with other kids then something weird is going on.

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  • walkingzombie

    How old are you anyways? This guys a. Creep

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    • I am 18 and hes 43, as bad as that sounds...i know its a 25 yr age difference. hes not creepy about it. I may not see it as being creepy cuz I have a massive thing for him. But idk

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  • Walterbasherdinger

    Sounds weird.

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  • sillygirl77

    Tell your parents and tell your Principal. This is NOT ok.

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  • 1knotted

    My wife & 3 of our 4 children are/have been Teachers.
    We all say "Head for the hills, Fast! This gent should NOT be teaching !!! Depending on your age & home life, either show this thread to a parent or to the Police, NOW.
    You have no idea how thin the ice is underneath you.

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  • pulse-punch

    He wants to get between your young, creamy thighs and do things to you that only he can teach.

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    • well then....lol wasnt expecting that

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