Is it normal my sister treats me more like her dad?
I mean it's like she feels like she needs my permission to do anything. She's always telling me what she's doing, where's she's going, when she'll be home. She keeps saying things like "if that's okay with you" for things like when she stays out late. I'm not one to stop her from doing that even if I didn't want her to. I can't sleep when she's out late because she texts me to let me know what she's doing. It's kind of annoying but I feel like if I told her she doesn't need to update me every hour she'll feel like I don't care and that's not true either. I just want her to be more independent, that's all.