Is it normal my sister's girlfriend wants to cheat on her with me?
My sister has been in a lesbian relationship with a girl she knows from school for the past six months. It seems like they're great together, and my sister seems really happy with it. I never thought much of it, other than that I was happy that my sister was happy even if their relationship wasn't what I was used to. But a few days ago, my sister's girlfriend asked me if I wanted a turn. I asked her what she meant, and she said she wanted to know if I was as good in bed as my sister, to see if it runs in the family. I was upset both by the suggestion and the way it was said, and told her I would never betray my sister like that. She asked if I was sure, then went into disturbing detail on some of the ways they had sex and pleasured each other. I was disgusted by the mental images, though I have to admit it did satisfy a certain curiosity. She finally said that she wanted to round out her relationships by having a guy in addition to a girl, that she felt like her experience just wasn't complete if she didn't get both siblings, and that cheating on a lesbian relationship with a straight relationship isn't really cheating. I managed to tell her off, even after she asked me a second time the next day, but I don't know what to do. Two of her friends told me I was an asshole for turning her down, and after I explained what happened to them it just seemed to make them think I was an even bigger asshole. I guess it's some kind of fetish some bisexual girls have. I haven't told my sister, and even though I probably will eventually, I don't know if it's best for her to know. She's so happy with the way thing are, and if I told her what happened it would upset her and I'd feel like I ruined her life.