Is it normal my partner likes to touch himself more than letting me to

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My boyfriend and I recently reunited after a year since we broke up. I noticed that he touches himself more than he did before. In our last relationship he loved when I touched him sexually and wanted to make love all the time, everyday in fact. Sometimes twice or three times a day. Now I find him touching himself a lot more and he tries to hide it. He claims to be ticklish now which he wasn't before. I told him I feel bad but he says he likes when I touch him but his actions speak louder. We might only have sex once a week if that often. It makes me feel rejected and unattractive like I'm here to only help him catch up on bills.

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  • passionPainter
    11 years ago

    Thank you for your responses. You're right. He may see me differently. He's much more respectful and doesn't bully me like he used to. He writes love notes every morning before he goes to work since my return and comes straight home after work to see if I want to accompany him when running errands. I guess I just miss the sex and am being selfish about it. I'll try to be more understanding and patient.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    He is normal.

    What's not normal is beating him up over it. Let him be and stop trying to make it into more than what it really is

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  • kit291
    11 years ago

    he must see you differently now that your back together. it might be good to talk about it to him.

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago

    The break up or the year that followed might have changed something in him (e.g.how he perceives you or responses to you).

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  • bryinand
    11 years ago

    that's a problem

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