Is it normal my parents blame me for them drinking

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ok so i'm another one of those people with problems and this is the only place i can share my problems with so i was adopted and the parents i have now they used to love take me too the movies let me play softball in the park with them and then they sigend me up and i got alot of friends but then when i was about 7 my parents got into fight and i just got so scared. My older brother and i would hide under his bed and close our ears and wait for it to stop then about 4 year later my mom started to drink and she was drunk all the time she always called me horrible names. When she did call me those things i just had to run away i went to walmart and just walked around in the store somtimes i would see my friends but i'd be cryin so much and there familys would be so nice to me and so after about an hour i'd go back home and my dad would be right there to hold me. That went on for about 3 years and as i started going into the store my frieds would aviod me and try to hide then when i started going to school i got bullied and laghed at by everyone i started gaining weight and people would call me tubby and fatty and all kinds of things that would just make you wanna throw up. That went on for like the rest of middle school. I went on a diet and got skinnier but people still made fun. I doent know what to do anymore. Is there anyone out there anyone at all who's life is the same i need to know i'm not the only one.

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  • Nokia
    11 years ago

    Your parents should not blame you for THEIR drinking problem. It is their choice and responsibility, not yours. As far as bullying, there are many like you; who all have it better and worse. Know this: the rest of us have seen the future, we know that whatever torture that lays ahead means nothing, you can get through it. I would recommend that you try and talk to the school counselor, and tell them your problems. They may be able to give you assistance. I want to think that although I know fear and doom may rally against you, you will stand against adversity and conquer it beside me. You will be the one I look to for courage, in the lonely and dreadful moments of my life.

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  • thumper61
    11 years ago

    what a load of shit. thay cant blame eney one but them self,s.

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    Check out these two 12 step programs: http://www.adultchildren.org/ and http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/, you should be able to meet people who understand you there.

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  • Sog
    11 years ago

    Have you ever talked to your guidance counselor at school about this? Is there another relative who lives nearby that you might like to live with?

    This is very sad. You shouldn't have to live though this.

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    A very sad post. I think you should talk to someone you trust about your problems. There are many young people out there like you, and just as many willing to listen. Alcoholics always blame their problems on others, so there's nothing you can do about that. You can, however, take control of your life and end the cycle of dependence. It's all up to you.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    That is such an assholey thing to do.

    Shit in their tea.

    MUTINY.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    laugh and joke:D drink up me hearties :D have one for me! :) hey your drinks getting low! no no let me pour, enjoy ! ten green bottles, everyone sing!

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