Is it normal my parents are mad at me for being responsible?

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My parents weren't home when I caught my sister flashing on her cam. I don't know why she was doing it because I couldn't see her screen and she closed it out before she pulled her shirt back down and told me to go away. Since I didn't want to interrupt our parents until they came back I decided to take her webcam away. If she was 18 I would have pretended I didn't see it but she's only 13 and is way too young to be doing that. She can get herself and anyone who sees her in a lot of trouble. When our parents came home I told them what happened and thought they were going to ground her or something. Instead they got mad at ME for doing what their job is supposed to be. They also said I was imagining things and it must have been something innocent. Um, no, I KNOW what I saw. I told them there couldn't be anything innocent that involved her making faces at her cam with her shirt up to her neck and her chest uncovered. They were offended by me putting it that way and I thought they would finally see reason, but no, instead they told me I shouldn't be thinking of her that way and to give her her webcam back immediately. They wouldn't let me say anything and I had to give it back to her. And when I did, just to piss me off more she stuck her tongue out and grabbed her boob and said something like, they're mine so I can show them off if I want too, or something like that. If only our parents could have heard that. And it gets worse. Later I heard them saying they should send me to a shrink because they think I have a pedo sexual interest in my little sister and was seeing things I wanted to happen. What. The. FUCK. I was PISSED OFF. I'm seriously ready to move out over this. If they want her to be the next Amanda Todd, fine. I'm giving up. I can't take them accusing me of being a pedo because I was trying to do the right thing.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Sounds like your parents are in denial they should have questioned your sister before passing judgement on you.

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  • SangoNyappy
    11 years ago

    I know some parents who act like their younger kids are super innocent and never do anything bad and when they do the parents just say it's fault of the older sibling. It's really unfair and your sister seems little bit spoiled.

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  • flowergirl87
    11 years ago

    Is there any way you could all talk...? This needs to be cleared up. Your parents are being ridiculous and at 13, your sister is too immature to bring it up and probably doesn't even feel there's a need to. Also, I agree with noopiepoe, sounds like your parents are in denial - finding it difficult to accept that their child is becoming more aware of her body and sexuality (in a fairly shallow way, but still.) It must hurt to have your own parents making false accusations like that about you. If I'd have seen a younger sibling er... flaunting? in a similar way, I think I would have felt protective and if they had a web cam, immeadiately wondered whether anyone else i.e. pervy old men online had seen their displays too. I really think your reaction was quite normal and sisterly! Don't let this one stew - at least attempt to have some kind of discussion. Be prepared to stand up for yourself, though (in a calm way!)

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  • chuy
    5 years ago

    You're a good big brother and you did the right thing. On the other hand your parents are to permissive with your little sister. If I was them I would of applaude your actions and take away the computer/cam from your sister along with a good talking to.

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  • Aewe101
    11 years ago

    Wow your parents sound like dicks.. Your sister is Dumm hopefully she well learn from her wrong doings one day and look back at this and be like hey maybe my sister was right I should stop being a slut an keep my boobs in my shirt, SMH at least you tried to do the right thing

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    You'd be surprised how many parents have this "benefit of the doubt" mentality. It's the reason why a lot of kids are the way they are now. Their reaction to an extent is normal, however, if they had any sense they'd have looked into it further.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Talk to your sister and make sure she's keeping her face out of the pictures. Otherwise, what she did is pretty normal sexual experimentation.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    You should have a talk with your little sister.

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