Is it normal my mother uses me
well my story isn't simple, until I have been 17, I could not have friends because my mother didn't let me see anyone. Because of the loneliness, I started cutting myself at 11, but my mum always said that I wanted to make her suffer, wich is not true, I wanted people to care for me, by any way.I just wanted to have friends, have someone to whom i would matter, like the other girls of my age had, but she never ever let me go out or have people come to her home.
Now I'm 22(2013), and she forced me to come back in 2010 (19 year old), by saying she is dying, wich was not true at all, she just felt lonely.
she forces me to stay at home to care for her since my father is dead. I have to do all he did at home, care for the money for the bills, do the repairs, care for intruders, kill just born kittens...
I can't take it anymore, i never lived for anything else than her since I was born, and now she asks me to pay back all the money I needed to live since my birth...
Should I stay for her???