Is it normal my mom told me she hopes i kill myself?

My mother just straight up told me that she wouldn't care if I killed myself, and she actually hopes I do.

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Based on 614 votes (61 yes)
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Comments ( 31 )
  • joybird

    OMG! I've never heard worse in my life!

    Is she a druggie or alcoholic? Or has she got a man and feels you're in the way?

    She ought to be ashamed of herself!!

    Move out as soon as you're able and don't look back!!

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  • my mother said that as well as told me that being a mother does not mean loving her child.

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  • tox

    Sometimes, I really hate humanity.

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  • tentacleTherapist

    Uh. Call child services. Get out of their quick before she kills you herself.

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  • cathy22

    your mother needs counseling., Now.

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  • August302011

    please dont ever listen to her!! you may tell yourself that theres no reason or whatsoever to live for but trust me hun one day you will and i'm sure you'll find someone who loves you to death. i know we're all just commenters but we really feel for you. pls dont!!

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  • Ldizzy1234

    Your mom has some serious problems to say that to her own child, or even to anybody. But she might've not really meant it, and just said it in the heat of the moment sorta thing. I wouldn't worry too much about it, and don't kill yourself. You definitely deserve to live the life you were given. And I'm sure there are many people who care about you.

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  • oliveyou13

    That's awful! Call child protective services if you're under age! :O

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  • jessicatruesong2009

    Awww I'm sorry, hun! :( If I were you I would call someone! If you go to school talk to your guidance counselor or something!

    Sometimes people say things out of anger or something, but this has no excuse.

    Oh hun, just promise me you won't listen to her. Life is worth it, live it while you can! Don't you EVER waste the life God gave you! Jesus DIED to protect it! Don't ever kill yourself, please, don't.

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    • Why is it that all the Jesus and God comments recieve a thumbs down..? Thats not fair I think you gave a good answer...just because some people might not agree with the religion part of it doesn't mean all comments like this deserve a thumbs down.

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      • joybird

        Believing in God is the only thing that kept me alive through my rotten childhood. I was taught that if I committed suicide my sould would go straight to hell. Everything has worked out very well since I walked out the door when I turned 18 and my mom calls me - I never feel the need to call her!!

        Whatever your beliefs, do what you can to make a success out of your life and let her wallow in her own grime!

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  • Unimportant

    try to see the positive in it. If she doesn't care about you, it means you won't have to take care of her either, when she needs your help some day. You are free of this person.

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  • alv1592

    Your moms level of insensitivity is unbelievable. I would suggest talking to a counselor. There's even phone counseling services that are free. It will really help to talk to someone. Good luck to you, hope things get better.

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  • FourAMandstillgoin

    What a horrible mother. You gave life to someone and tell them to die cause you did a crappy job raising them! What a horrible person D:

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  • pambambam

    odds are that your mom has an alcohol, drugs, or ended up being nobody. she is taking it all on you. relax, youre better than her. and can have a great , happy life. get away from negative people like her.

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  • sapincher

    Your mother obviously has quite a few issues, but look at the bright side. I hope your experiences with her help you grow up to be a strong, independent man/woman and learn how to become the parent for your children that you've always wanted .

    Show her that submitting to depression because of her only lets her win - show her that you have purpose - show her that you can prevail even with her breathing disgusting words like that down your neck.

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  • Aloobah

    ^Even if they had, had a massive argument that still doesn't mean their mum can say that to them!
    Say it back to her and see how she likes it! Please tell someone about this I beg of you. She can't say that to you it's not right. She might need medical help.

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  • AngAnders112

    were u guys arguing or something? or did she just say this to you out of the blue? was she drunk when she said it? not wanting to make excuses, just wondering where something like that is coming from.

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  • dappled

    Both parents have said some pretty terrible things to me but they've never gone this far. I don't think it's normal and I'm sorry this happened to you. If it means anything, there are probably reasons she said it that are nothing to do with you, and she doesn't actually mean it.

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  • ilovehippies

    Please dont kill yourself. No matter what she says, deep down, she knows she'd still be crushed. If not the bitch should be crucified, but thats besides the point. If i we're you, when you move out cut all ties with her because she doesnt deserve you.

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  • A_Slice_of_Life

    Teach her a lesson and sell your mom's pills.

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  • LAgirl427

    Sometimes I hate this fucking world. A mom telling her own child to die fuckin fat cow

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  • RidingSheepOnClouds

    Move out - STAT!

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  • Avant-Garde

    What a bitch!

    Please, don't listen to her! She sounds crazy!

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  • DoReMiRocker

    I think you should pack your stuff, run away and don't come back. That demonish mother doesn't deserve you. If you take my advice, beware of strangers and wild animals but make sure you take alot of food and money with you so you can buy food and extra stuff if needed. What type of mother says that to their OWN CHILD? You seriously need to get out of there as soon as posible.

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  • ducalfiltre

    I feel sorry for your mother

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  • Shit I'm sorry about that. I'd tell her to rot in hell after that. You probably aren't considering sucide but don't let that destroy you. Talk to someone about it maybe.

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  • ^^ haha, to op at least you know its only a small blessing but you know, she is small thats all and you will leave the small world and look back and forgive

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  • Andy20.

    U need to slap her endlessly now for that shit

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  • MissClaire

    kinda hard without the whole story -

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  • TareBear20

    I'd turn around and tell her to go kill herself.

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