Is it normal my mom is like this?

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At least once a week my mom has a 'fit'. Idk what you'd call it...

I'm VERY lazy, so lazy I've considered whether I have a mental issue. I don't do chores as often as I should, like I do dishes once or twice a week. I know I sound like a bitch teen trying to defend herself, but I'm sincerely wondering if it is really my fault. Is it just me trying to defend myself?

Anyway, once in a while my mom goes nuts. She'll suddenly decide that you're stupid and you've done everything wrong. She smiles while on the phone with someone and I'll go upstairs, then minutes later "CAAAASYYYYYY!!! WHY THE HELL ARE YOU UP THERE!? GET DOWN HERE RIGHT NOW!!!" And that happened just a few moments ago.

It's gotten to the point where I can't tell her the truth about anything. If I told her for instance that I "wish she could please please pleeeease calm down for a moment" or that "could I please tell her the story" she would completely freak out.

I think the worst was about a month ago and i tried to tell her something.

It started with something simple like "hey could you sweep up?" And I was gonna- after I go to the bathroom. Somehow that got to a "do you understand" question. I didnt understand or agree, so I shut up. Silent, not a word. That got her mad, so she slapped me and told me that a better reply. But I didn't. So she went a got a belt. By now I was crying. She spanked me and of coarse, I cried louder. That stuff hurts! She flipped out about the noise and started telling me to shut up. She likes to press her hand on my mouth and sometimes it cuts my lips. She dragged me upstairs to the bathroom and tried to shove me into a cold shower with my clothes on. I screamed and tried to get away but she got me to the ground and started kicking me telling me to.mind her, and she got my brother to also, but he was crying like i was some dying cat.

She blames it on my period, she doesnt have one. Shed also deny any of this if anyone asked her, and shed kill me for 'lying'.

Is that normal? Is it me?

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Based on 54 votes (17 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You should just help your mum, you live there too! Stop being a lazy little bitch and quit complaining. Grow up while your at it, might make you see some sense. Watch how much better your relationship with your mum will be when you help out.

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  • manii92
    11 years ago

    She's defiantly is mentally in stable.. Like mommy dearest or something.. I would tell someone if I were u.. Because when u get sick of her beating on you like that u may snap and do something worse

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  • joybird
    11 years ago

    She may be menopausal so her hormones are flying too. It can be extremely frustrating to carry lazy teenagers who just seem like parasites with, "I want, I want, I want." However, your mum is completely psycho so I really think you should imagine you're in the army. If she tells you to do something, just do it - before you get distracted!! I honestly, wouldn't take the risk that she could seriously hurt you someday :o(

    Is there anyone in the family you could stay with at the weekends just to get away from under her feet?

    Be very careful not to wind her up!

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Sounds like your mom is strait up crazy!

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    Not normal. Sounds like you have an abusive parent.
    Maybe she has some mental issues that need to be diagnosed and treated.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    She's abusive and crazy. It isn't normal at all! Please tell someone!

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  • thinkingaboutit
    11 years ago

    Your mom is abusive and unstable.

    Get help. She does not deserve you or your brother. She is killing you in ways you are yet to understand.

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