Is it normal my life has been ruined over nothing?

I was standing in line and I saw a woman who looked a lot like someone I used to know, it was weird. She saw I was looking and got angry and said what the fuck was I looking at? I said I was sorry but she looked a lot like someone else and it was uncanny. She screamed 'WHAT DID YOU SAY ABOUT MY CANS?' and took out her phone and called 911 and said I threatened to rape her. She said they said I had to wait there to be arrested so I did and the police came. They knocked me down and pointed their tasers at me when they handcuffed me and I bumped my head hard when they shoved me into the car. When they took me to the jail they told me I had to post the bail of $50,000 before I could talk to a lawyer, and when I said I'm supposed to be allowed to talk to one now an officer punched me in the stomach and said rights are for people who aren't rapists and that if I complained any more they would add two counts of assaulting an officer to my charges, the first one for when I complained because they hurt my head throwing me in the car. The guy next to him high fived him and said good one. So after the bail bondsman helped me get out I talked to a lawyer and he said that in these kinds of cases the court almost always sides with the woman even when it goes against evidence so he wouldn't take on the case. I talked to another lawyer and he said the same thing and when I asked if he could give any advice he said to make sure my family knows what prison I go to. I talked to a third and she said she had ethics and she would never help a rapist and kicked me out of her office. I'm almost out of money. Now what do I do???