Is it normal my i'm awkward around my boyfriends best friend?

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My boyfriend of 18 months best friend is my ex boyfriend, i dated him about a year before i got with my now boyfriend for 4 months. I broke up with him because it wasnt working. I had been best friends with my now boyfriend for a few years before i got with his best mate but after breaking up with my ex we began to get feelings for each other. But now my boyfriend wants us to all be ale to hang out but i feel like my ex hates me and his girlfriend hates me even more.... I dont know how to get over this.....

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago

    Sounds normal, but I wouldn't reccommend continuing to date within the same social circle if you and your current boyfriend ever do break up. Just try to be friendly and respectful for your current boyfriend's sake. It's kind of something you're asking for when you date within the same group.

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  • seabird_71
    12 years ago

    What doesn't sound normal is that your boyfriend wants you all to hang out and be the best of friends. Normally I've always heard it reversed.

    It's totally normal for you to feel the way you do, hanging out with ex's can be a little weird for some people; especially if said ex and ex's girlfriend hate you.

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    Interesting, for a split second I thought I knew you. But, not rational with all of the people in the world.
    But pretty normal for high school relations.
    If your older, I'd say grow up :)

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  • Katlouii8
    12 years ago

    The only reason I dated someone from the same circle was because we knew it was real, we were best friends for years before and never thought we'd end up together and when we did talk about together we knew it wasnt something we could back down on...

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