Is it normal my husband's mistress wants to hang out with me?

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For the first time we got on the phone together, we discussed him and his bullshit ways. Me and him are still married. He has been wanting me to be her friend and I never and still dont, understand why. We have a child together by the way as well. He does not help me with her at all. Hes a broke ass peice of sh*t. But is this normal? like, they must have some sort of evil plan at work or something? At first I did not want to meet her, Im like I would beat her ass. But now that I really don't care anymore, it didn't even bother me to be on the phone with her. I kind of feel sorry that she got my left overs if anything. But is this normal behavior? I didn't think it is.. Shes fucking my husband you know? like wtf??? Why would she even think I want to hang out with her. Just because I get on the phone one time does not mean Im your new best friend. Its kind of odd.

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  • americanhoney
    10 years ago

    Which trailer park are you in?

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  • Elliemental
    10 years ago

    So other than the legal part of being married, he's your ex? Your ex's new bird wants to be your friend? Maybe she knows that their relationship isn't right n your the only person that understands what he's really like, if you feel you want to be her friend then go for it! If not just explain to her that even though you have a cock in common you have no desire to have a relationship with her. From your 'husbands' point of view maybe he likes to think you'll end up fighting over him or suggesting a 3some!

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    • beeee
      10 years ago

      I thought maybe he does want us to fight over him or something. Thats the only thing I can think of. But he wants us to be cool and is okay with us being friends. Dont know he hasnt thought that maybe I would run my mouth about him being a shitty person. & why the fuck would he think Id fuck them? Thats crazy as fuck, I cant stand my ex. Only reason why I talked to her is because I didnt even mean to and I was drinking. Then all we did was bitch together about him.

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      • Elliemental
        10 years ago

        Maybe he's just on a power trip and likes playing games, the other option is he wants you to like her cos he's planning on her being your daughters step mum but still don't understand why he'd want the 2 of you to get on if you and him don't even got on and he doesn't do anything for your daughter? Forget her and forget him too, hopefully he'll step up to the mark n be the father your daughter deserves and you deserve a person that's there for you whether that's a friend or more! Good luck! Hope you find someone who deserves you both! X

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  • Mrstr8up
    10 years ago

    All of yall sound crazy to me !!!

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  • dinz
    10 years ago

    Why the hell are you still with him?!

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    • ants91shearer
      10 years ago

      thats what Dr phill would say.

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    • beeee
      10 years ago

      Im not with him!! We are separated!

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    threesome

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    • GuessWho
      10 years ago

      Same thought.
      I think he wanted his wife to meet his mistress in hopes that they'll get along and he'll get a threesome.

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      • beeee
        10 years ago

        How is that a sign that he wants a threesome? If I wanted to do that, I would have while we were together. Don't make sense. My family says thats what they believe hes trying to do too. Its weird, like wtf. lol

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  • iEatZombies_
    10 years ago

    No it isn't normal that she wants to be your friend. She fucked your husband. While you two were still a thing. Did she even bring that up? You know, "Oh, btw, sorry I fucked your husband." Stay away from her. Whether you care for your husband or not, she obviously isn't trustworthy. You already know that, though. Don't let those white trash talk you into being white trash.

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  • Riddler
    10 years ago

    Wait, Wait, Wait... You are saying, he has a mistress, you don't care, and the only thing you see weird about this picture is that she wants to be your friend?

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    • charli.m
      10 years ago

      She'd left him...did you not read that bit?

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      • Riddler
        10 years ago

        No I actually didn't. Either way he sounds like a horses rear. All I read was the posted story. I don't understand why she would want to be friends with his first either though. I also see where she would feel insulted that the person who stole her husband is attempting to befriend her. I would have been angry If I was in this type of situation.

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        • charli.m
          10 years ago

          Yes, he does.

          But that's why her question is about the mistress trying to befriend her, not about the fact the prick cheated on her.

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    • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
      10 years ago

      lol Thinking the same thing.

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  • ibreathelectric
    10 years ago

    Please tell me you're trolling.

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    • beeee
      10 years ago

      I'm really not. Why would I make this up? As crazy as it sounds... its true!

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      • ibreathelectric
        10 years ago

        Ohmygawsh. Woman. You need to like. Take a break from life for a while.. That's like not human what you're going through. Go on vacation by yourself or something. You deserve it.

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        • beeee
          10 years ago

          I would if I had money. I don't have a job, he kept me like a dog in a house my whole marriage. I am trying to get my life in order the best I know how but nothing is working in my favor. This has been going on for about seven months. Our separation I'm talking about. I am at a loss on what to do at this point .. but I am healed from him I believe, and I didn't realize it until I talked to her. She helped me validate that his life isn't any better without me and I think I helped her understand what a peice of shit he really is. She already had a clue, but I think I validated that much more. I am just financially fucked now, that is my only problem, which is a pretty big issue. But I am happy to not have to deal with him anymore. Hallelujah to that! Im so poor though I am legally tied to him, for what seems to be forever.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Divorce him and sue him for child support. Your husband sounds like a bigger turd than what I just flushed down the toilet!

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    • beeee
      10 years ago

      Exactly. Hes the biggest peice of shit I have ever come in contact with, and unfortunately for me, I married him and have his kid.

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  • mixwell
    10 years ago

    Why the fuck are you talking to the chick who your husband cheated on you with?

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    • beeee
      10 years ago

      She called me through his phone! At first I thought it was him, but it was her. At first I had an attitude but then somehow we got on the subject bitching about him. I had been drinking and she said she was too. But she still trying to hang out with me.

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