Is it normal my husband flashes his junk and asks me if i "need him?"

Yes this is normal. Most of us have abdolutely no idea what we are doing at any given time.

guess what, women do the same thing. at work ,to your husband. why ? because its normal. women say thing like . feel how wet your making my pussy. they say thing like , i let you put in in my butt. i bet your wife won't let you do that. Or do you want to go to lunch or i suck you off in my car. or i just need to feel a hard cock in my mouth. Now, along come you and you want to know if your husband is normal. im just shaking my head.