Is it normal my husband doesnt like making out with me?

my husband was acting really weird one day when i tried getting hot and heavy with him trying to kiss him (and no not like shoving my tongue down his throat just making out)and he was pulling away from me when i asked him why he said because he doesnt feel like it sometimes:( is it normal?

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55% Normal
Based on 96 votes (53 yes)
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Comments ( 23 )
  • dom180

    I'm sure there are loads of times when you've refused his advances just because you don't feel like it that night. Believe it or not, men can be the same. When you've been together for a long time, it is really normal for one or both of you to feel like this sometimes.

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  • emilydoll

    He's either insecure or you have bad oral hygiene.

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  • fpssource

    U didnt something wrong in those steps.. u gatta make him feel the excited first .. not jump in

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  • aintitnormal

    Hahahahah i am far from ugly! And I'm pregnant with his lil boy! We JUST got married I'm 19 not some old lady! And I do ask him he just tells me that he's not in the mood but he does work 12 hours a day 5 days a week but I thought he loved kissing me I'm well groomed I brush my grill so its not my breath haha

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    • norm

      Some guys are very much attracted to pregnant women.

      Some guys are sorta turned off by pregnant women.

      It could be that simple.

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  • I don't understand these men who are married or just have a girlfriend and say no to sex, cuddling, making out and things like that.

    I guess he doesn't feel like it. Maybe he doesn't find you attractive anymore. Maybe you have bad breathe and doesn't tell you. It could be anything, you need to ask him what's up with that or you won't know.

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  • chewy

    Maybe you are fugly as hell though of that?

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  • SoccerStud88

    i wouldnt make out with u either

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  • Fedupmom

    Get out of that marriage now. It only gets worse. Been there, done that. Move on and find someone that's in to YOU!

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  • aintitnormal

    @anonymouslynormal I seriously do everything he asks i really dont know what i can possibly do. i dont do the same shit over and over again sex has never been an issue before!

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  • Anonymouslynormal

    Wow.. you just got married and he's already not into you. Won't judge you though but maybe he has a problem. I agree with ygrowup find out things, try new ways, be exciting because doing the same thing over and over again is usually boring..

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  • aintitnormal

    @dozis your dumb dude he barley has anytime time off work and the time he does have off he is always with me he's just a grouch maybe he doesn't like pregnant girls, but its HIS child inside of me so if he has issues with it he can fuck off he is the one that knocked me up!

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  • aintitnormal

    @chewablegum you said I was probably fugly lmfao!!! I have a picture on my profile, I'm not some scary ass biatch! Hahaha

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  • ygrowup

    You have to work at keeping things exciting and new! Try to remember what made things special to you both! New places, outside maybe, all day foreplay, starting in public and finishing somewhere you have not tried before!

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  • emilydoll

    Maybe he wants to do it when it feels special?

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  • Sweetz

    Endless possibilities

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  • growyourself

    Hmm everyone else comments seem to be pretty negative. I would say that maybe he just needs some space? Sometimes when my boyfriend does the whole, I'm trying to get you worked up because I'm worked up thing ends up turning me off, I know that I love him and enjoy our sexual romps but sometimes I'm just not in the mood!!

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  • deb

    :(

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  • Dozis

    He is cheating on you.Did not want you to find out he already had to cum or whatever,probably he is cheating on you with another man.Or a kid.Or some hesitating little virgin girl who totally makes him feel like he is the man.
    Or maybe he was just tired and would have rather had some softcore sex than what you were going for.
    Or maybe he wasn't feeling well.. i do not know..
    There are times when men do not feel like it,believe it or not,the difficult part to get is the 'why'.
    Couldn't you just ask him?

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  • aintitnormal

    Wow I guess you guys are all right apparently I'm this ugly bitch with bad breath! You guys are really mean! But your right! I asked him and he said it doesn't feel as fun as it used to so I guess I made the biggest mistake of my life agreeing to mary him-__- funny how life works, I always get the shit end of the stick

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    • chewy

      Beautiful tits what size are they? i love tits and a woman with a nice smile :D

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  • --ash--

    Maybe you should start on your knee's, he wont say no to that, besides your breath stinks.

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  • joybird

    Now you know why they say marriage is the best contraception :o( No fun when sex is legal so why bother.

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