Is it normal my husband doesn't want sex now that i'm pregnant?

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Is it normal that my husband doesn't want to have sex with me ever since I have been pregnant? Seriously, this is really starting to mess with my head! We used to have sex constantly before I got pregnant! What happened? Is being 7 months pregnant that repulsive to him? I would really like to hear some honest opinions. Am I unattractive? Or maybe is it the age difference (he is almost 41 and I'm 23) and his sex drive went down? I am happy and compatible in every other way with him and he is a great husband and I am lucky to have him but this whole him not wanting to have sex is really starting to make me feel bad. I have always gone above and beyond to please him sexually in any way I can but now that I'm pregnant he completely doesn't want sex........ is this normal?

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78% Normal
Based on 9 votes (7 yes)
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  • bullsballs666
    12 years ago

    I think a pregnant women is AWESOME!!!
    Besides, having an orgasm helps ease the contractions and help dilate you. :)

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    I think I would bang the F*CK out of my pregnant wife...

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    • Samson
      12 years ago

      And kill the fetus who gives a fuck. Kidding i don't know anything about that but i do know that it is dangerous to hump a woman with a huge stomach.

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      • Shackleford96
        12 years ago

        From what I've heard, it's only dangerous in the very later stages of the pregnancy. Otherwise, the baby is just fine in it's protective bubble thing(forgot what it's called).

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        • Samson
          12 years ago

          Ya i figured it was something like that.

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        • greylovesscott
          12 years ago

          According to the doctors it is perfectly fine throughout the entire pregnancy as long as it's not a high risk pregnancy and it's even recommended for women when they've went past their due date ( semen helps soften the cervix). Even though I'm 7 months, my stomach really isn't that big. All of this has been explained to him but he's still just not wanting to have sex and I don't understand. I've tried talking to him about it and he always says he's just tired but he wasn't "tired" before I got pregnant.

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          • Shackleford96
            12 years ago

            I am sorry for your problem... I wish I knew more to tell you, but this is beyond my knowledge.

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  • coleen
    7 years ago

    i think maybe you should sit down and really have a talk with him. there's many things that a can turn off after a man see certain things he's not used to. i'd say try something new, get a new hairstyle , go somewhere alone like a vacation and have fun. i'm sure he'll change his mind. but its upto you to try things. hope that helps. gl

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  • kelili
    9 years ago

    He doesn't want to hurt you or the baby. He surely sees you as fragile. Just be patient, I'm sure things will get better after you give birth.
    And I'm curious, by sex you mean oral sex too? If he's uncomfortable with the penetration, try oral only.

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  • Bumholelover
    9 years ago

    I will fuck you

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  • GuessWhat?
    11 years ago

    He probably thinks its weird and is uncomfortable doing it. I don't blame him, seems gross.

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    • GuessWho
      11 years ago

      I'm guessing you ^ ripped off my username.

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      • GuessWhat?
        11 years ago

        Wrong guess

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  • Icedangel11
    12 years ago

    Some men have an adversion to pregnant sex because they feel they are cumming on their baby.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Sometimes, yes it is normal. You should have a good talk with him about it, let him know how you are feeling.

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    • greylovesscott
      12 years ago

      He always says he's tired, but he just suddenly became " tired" after he got me pregnant.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        What I meant is a real, sit-down type of talk with him. Not just mentioning it and hoping for the best. "Tired" is sometimes an excuse and sometimes it's the truth. Have a heart-to-heart with your hubby.

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