Is it normal my husband doesn't like pulling back his foreskin, ever?

He sounds like a dirty bastard.

I have no idea why someone reported this.

Anyways, couldn't you compromise by having him clean himself in a bath so he doesn't have to experience any sensitivity related pain whilst in the shower? The health of your vag should be equally important...so he should just get in the fucking tub.

It's time for him to grow up and learn how to keep himself clean. He's lucky to have you because just thinking about performing oral on someone with poor hygiene makes me nauseous.

That's pretty gross. i'm uncircumcized too and it sounds like he has something wrong with his dick where he needs to see the doctor. When I get a boner the foreskin folds back on it's own naturally. It is also common sence to fold back the skin when pissing and to clean good in the shower. As long as you're not a complete dumbass there shouldn't be this problem. I'm wondering if it hurts him to fold the skin because it might just be all infected. Tell him to stop being disgusting.

So what if water is uncomfortable. He should clean it anyway. What a pig.

Yet anothet reason to appreciate my Hebrew brethren!

Sorry, but your husband sounds gross and all that mess would have been a deal breaker for me. I hate dirty, stinky people, they deserve to be alone.

I am almost the same as your husband so for me it's totally normal. The only difference is that my girlfriend enjoys peeling back my foreskin, sniffing and licking it so by the time we have sex it's all clean and we never have any issues. Have you thought of doing the same or is it too unpleasant for you? I know it will drive him wild because it does for me and I'm uncut with lots of foreskin and don't ever like peeling it back.

First off, you seem like a great girl, and thusfar you've been really patient with all of this.

The glans is supposed to be sensitive, but not THAT sensitive. It sounds like your husband may have a partial phimosis or something, because as somebody else said, the foreskin is supposed to retract by itself when the penis becomes erect. It shouldn't need to be manually done. I've never heard of someone giving a guy oral entirely OVER the foreskin. You really do sound like a saint for being patient with this.

I feel for you and your poor guy. I imagine it's certainly not hygienic never being able to allow air underneath the skin, let alone not to be able to properly rinse it. I think you just have to sit him down and tell him that he needs to start rinsing underneath. It'll be painful at first, but his glans will get used to it. Obviously because of his unusually tight skin, he's been sort of guarding his glans his whole life, and that's kind of childish. He could get a bad infection, especially since you say he produces smegma.

Most men retract their foreskin all the way when they're still toddlers, so if a little kid can get used to the hypersensitivity of the newly exposed glans, so can your husband, and once he does, the pleasure he'll experience will be mind blowing. Good incentive, huh?

Good luck to both of you!

He needs to see a doctor. Not only could they counsel him on hygiene but he may have an issue with his foreskin. It should go down when he is aroused, but you make it seem like it never does. There is a health condition where the foreskin never comes down, even when the man is aroused. If he has what I am thinking it about, it could be dangerous as the caught foreskin can cut off circulation to the penis.