Is it normal my half sister sent me a nude photo of herself?

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she is my half sister and we've met only once. I'm 26, and she is 18 and loves me to death. She's a pretty cool kid, and very active. I live in alabama, and she live way up north in Maine. Haven't seen her since she was 15. we talk on the phone all the time and usually we text. anyways, i got a text from her yesterday and said she loved me as a brother and felt like she could share anything with me and I'd give my honest opinion and that she trusted me. she wanted to send me a new pic of her cause she got a new hair cut. she wanted to know if it went well with her body. she said she didnt know how it made her look and i told her just send me 1. she sent one and couldn't get it to go through so i had her send it to my email. I didnt get to check my email yesterday, but today i checked it and she sent like 10 different pics, All nude. She didn't get a hair cut at all. She trimmed her vagina and wanted to know if it went well with her body. She now wants to know if I've seen the pics yet, and i told her my internet is down, and it'll be a few day before it's back up again. Trying to buy some time to figure out what to tell her. I dont want to ruin the relationship we have but i deff. dont want it to go this route.

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  • Ramit10
    11 years ago

    Just ask her why she felt the need to send you one if she feels you are a brother to her. Nothing wrong with it just ask her why and talk about it. Tell her you dont have feelings for her but want to remain good friends like nothing has changed.

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  • DannyKanes
    11 years ago

    Hawt

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  • TwilightPsycho
    11 years ago

    She wants you, bro. Go for it.

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  • richardbturgid
    10 years ago

    Assuming that she isnt trying to seduce u... normal

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  • BHolt
    11 years ago

    You said that you've only met once, at that was 3 years ago? If that is the case, and you did not grow up together during the first 15 years of her life, what you're dealing with is GSA (Genetic Sexual Attraction). Because you did not grow up together, you did not become sexually 'desensitised' to each other as normal siblings do. Therefore you are able to find each other sexually attractive, just the same as any two regular people.

    You are affected too, but maybe to a lesser degree. If you weren't, you probably would have told her you saw the images and felt they were inappropriate. The fact you are trying to figure things out means there is some 'urge' there that you feel the need to rationalise. This is not a bad thing, please do not feel guilty over this, GSA is very common.

    If you don't wish to pursue a sexual relationship with her (I probably would in your position, but everyone is different), then you will need to break it to her easy. Tell her she is special to you as a sister, more than she should be, but you cannot be with her. As for the pics, she asked you about her body in them. Tell her she is very attractive, and has an amazing, sexy body (if its true). Tell her what parts you like most. Make her feel confident about herself. Hint in a flirty way that if you weren't related, you would return her affections.

    Further info:
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Westermarck_effect
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genetic_Sexual_Attraction

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