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Me and my gf have been dating for almost 4 months but she still won't kiss me. I've tried to kiss her but have just stopped trying kuz she just doesn't move her lips or turns away. She still talks dirty and stuff which makes it sound like she'd have sex with me in an instant why won't she kiss me
Some cultures don't look at kissing as a sexual thing, in fact they don't kiss at all. In some cultures, lip to lip contact is only ever used to feed small children - the mother chews the food and passes it to the child via "kiss feeding". While I'm not saying this is the case with your girlfriend, given the lack of information about your location/culture and the culture/heritage of your girlfriend, it needs to be considered.
Alternately, it may be that for some reason your girlfriend just doesn't like kissing. Perhaps she believes she is terrible at it. Perhaps she is overly conscious of the plethora of germs that live in your average mouth. Perhaps she, or you have terrible breath.
There also exists the possibility that your girlfriend fears kissing you might lead to "other things". While it sounds stupid to most people, some (particularly young) girls who have been brought up in more "Puritan" families look at kissing as being like the "gateway drug" to full on sex. Yes, I know you say she talks about sex, but talking about it isn't doing it is it.
It also sounds like your girlfriend and you are rather young.
Might I suggest that, rather than asking a bunch of complete strangers who really have no idea, you actually ask your girlfriend? I know, crazy idea eh, but you just might actually find out why she is behaving like that.
Maybe you have bad breath, or chapped lips. Try brushing your teeth more frequently, eating mints, and using chapstick.
Yeah, that shit wouldn't cut it for me. I can't take someone seriously who doesn't like to kiss, and people who want sex without kissing can stay the fuck away from me, because that's an old whore's trick that they use to not get emotionally attached. It's fine if a prostitute doesn't wanna kiss people, and yes there are those who don't like kissing on the mouth, but I ain't one of em. I love, crave and need the kind of intimacy that comes from lots of kissing on the mouth. Not having it is a deal breaker and having it is a must have for me.
I think you ought to sit down, and have a nice long talk with her.
Well Rose, its great to hear that are one of those prostitutes that kiss people on the lips. I'd say you make a packet?