Is it normal my girlfriend is in love with someone else

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In this post i won't use anyones real names.
So I've been going out with my girlfriend for like a month now but I known her for 3 years and I always liked her. I've been taking her out on dates recently and I noticed she's been spacing out a lot. I ask her what's wrong she just says I was thinking about something. Also I took her to the park we walked around for hours. She then post on twitter "I've been walking around for hours thinking about what I'm going to tell you." I know she isn't talking about me in this post and another night saying "got a new boyfriend" and another tweet saying "I love you David" so I asked her about it and she said David is just a really good friend and I was the new boyfriend that she was talking about even though we had already been going out. And she randomly ask me "what am I doing for valentines day" I said "spending the day with you" she says "what? Don't you wanna spend the day by yourself." It really hurts me to know that she is doing this to me. How could a woman be so cruel. I can't leave her because I have no one else and I really want this to work with her. I don't even think I can go on living if I lose her I don't know what to do at all. And one last things he claims her friend David blocked me from her page on Facebook and she doesn't know how to unblock people I know this isn't true and she is just leaving me blocked so I won't see anything on her page and people won't know we are in a relationship. I think a really good guy I'm nice to her and whenever we go out I pay for everything. Do women really play games with guys like this? Why is this happening to me? All I want is a women that will love me back why can't I have that?

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  • gizmoid
    11 years ago

    You get what you settle on in life. If this isn't what you want, MOVE ON. Don't put up with being second place in her life.

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  • truercheese
    11 years ago

    Oh wow. Dump her asap.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I don't even know if I have enough strength to go through with it.

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      • truercheese
        11 years ago

        It's going to hurt no matter what. The end of anything usually does. But this relationship is not healthy for you.
        It would be better for you to leave her now than later, and better to leave her than stay with her.
        She's obviously trying to hide a lot from you, and lying. And it's going to hurt you every time she does. It's unhealthy to keep yourself in that position and unfair to yourself.
        The longer you stay, the more it's going to hurt, and the more she is going to eat away at your well being really.
        You deserve better, anyone deserves better than that.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          You are right. Since this has been happening I have not been functioning properly. I haven't been eating as much and it's because I don't want to when I try I always feel full. And I've been dreaming about her so much lately it hurts.I will try will all I have to leave her. Thank you for the advice it really helped me.

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          • truercheese
            11 years ago

            Exactly. Don't let yourself stay in that place. And who cares if you don't have a new girl to go to right away? Respect yourself enough to know that it is more important to be single and happy, than in a relationship and depressed. I promise one day you will find someone way better than her, that won't lie to you, and will have the feelings for you that you have for her.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Wow. If this is a game, then why are you playing it? I would turn that shit off if I were you. I'm a nice person, I would want to rip my heart out for treating someone the way she's treating you. This makes her a bad person :/ "I used to think being alone was the scariest thing. I now know the scariest thing is being with someone who makes you feel alone." Please don't stay with her! There are nice girls out there and she's going to mess you up bad...

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  • screwthestandard
    11 years ago

    Being with her will hurt a lot more than leaving her.

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  • fullhouse
    11 years ago

    What a bitch! You need to find some frirmends dude. this has happened to me and it sucks big.time

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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    You're on the hook, bud. Let go

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  • la_uva_mojada
    11 years ago

    Listen to the song "what goes around.. Comes around" by Justin timberlake.

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    I agree with all the above, but I'll try to put it kindly. What in you wants to inflict such plain upon yourself? Is your self esteem that low, that you need this mistreatment? You need to examine your co-dependency issues. Good luck.

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  • curiouskate101
    11 years ago

    dude are your serious??? you already lost her!!!! wtf staying with her would be like keeping your dead dog you have to let her go! she is cheaz ting on you no scatch that she is cheating on david with you your just the other guy. youll live dont make someone a priority if their gonna make you an option! tell her shes a fucken cheating whore and your not stupid and that you deserve better.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    All of your guys responses are great but what should I say to her?

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    • ccjigsaw
      11 years ago

      I would just tell her. I'm sorry, but I think I can do better. Bring up all her twitter comments, the blocked thing, the valentines thing. And if she tries to deny them, tell her you're not stupid :/ You'd have to be down right thick not to see what's going on.

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  • Dizoro
    11 years ago

    End the relationship man trust me i know Im not proud of it but ive been in your situation and you gotta end that shit now otherwise she will dump you and it hurts alot more.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    She's cheating on you. You need to end the relationship and when you do don't mince your words.

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  • debbiedoo
    11 years ago

    shes a slut. leave her ass and dont talk to her again.

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  • mevsyou
    11 years ago

    Dump the chick. Tell her she's heartless and needs to stop playing games with people. Then kick her in the shin and spot in her face. Ok, don't do that last part, but do the rest.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Stop paying for everything you fool.

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    • debbiedoo
      11 years ago

      hes a man.. they do that.

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      • Steve2.0
        8 years ago

        And people wonder why men are so weak these days. Fuck.

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        • Steve2.0
          8 years ago

          I remember the good old days before I was born when men used to kick a woman in the vagina hard for saying something in public.

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          • Steve2.0
            8 years ago

            And in the '50s when we used to taser a woman for having an opinion.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    In this day and age you are asking for too much.

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