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When my girlfriend and I are hanging out together she acts perfectly normal around me. But when her friends are around she tunes me out and almost ignores me completely. I don't know if she is just shy or wants some time with her friends but why does she have to ignore me so rudely?
I can agree with Alison89, she ignores me a lot but when I bring it up, she says she doesn't realize she is doing it then says she is going to change, but then she goes on and continues ignoring me. I know i probably sound like a little pussy saying all this but it hurts to be ignored. I've been ignored way too many times by the people I've called friends and family.
While she may love you, girl time is just as important as hanging with the fellas. Allow her to enjoy that time exclusively, lie a girls nights out. I would tell her, however, that you feel like she disregards you when they are around. You should not become invisible just because the girls are around.
Don't waste any more time hanging around if her friends arrive. Go away and get on with your own life.
Can't talk to her buddy , if she acts like that, you come off as needy and not secure and it will turn her off. Act extra nice to her when you guys are one on one and when her friends are around act like an asshole, if it's not in your gut to act like an asshole than be indifferent , act like you are busy, on the phone or playing tetris on your phone, whatever works for you, she has to feel that she's an option now and until she wants to figure out why the sudden change... Look at her, say think hard retard and walk away bitching say I dont have time to put up with stupid shit.
She will go psycho.... Be warned.
( but you will feel like a million bucks on the inside )
I would talk with her and let her know what you think about the situation, i think you could sort something out if you tell her how you feel about this
I think that's fairly normal. She probably doesn't even realize she's doing it and would deny it if you brought it up.