Is it normal my girlfriend and i haven't kissed yet?

So my girlfriend and I started dating two months ago but I haven't really made the move to kiss her. We've been on a few dates and we always hug and I've kissed her on the cheek before. I even went for a pseudo kiss during one of our dates but wasn't really thinking as it was awfully timed now that I look back at it. It was super embarrassing I leaned in kind of suddenly, and our lips touched for a millisecond and we haven't really said anything about it.This is my first girlfriend and she's only had one other boyfriend so we're both kinda new to the whole dating thing, and I've been super nervous to make a move and just kiss her but plan on doing so soon.

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  • Johnnytherat

    she wants to make sure my dick stank aint on there before she kisses you

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  • dom180

    I think it is normal, considering your inexperience. It's always normal to be tentative if you don't know the ropes. I can't remember how long it took, but I didn't kiss with my first girlfriend for at least a few weeks.

    Try not to worry about it. A first kiss doesn't really matter as much as some people say it does. I hardly remember mine, and it was less than three years ago. I remember where we were, but not if it was hard or soft or tongue-y or not or just a peck or what. I remember it being really exciting at the time - not in the sexy way, just in an exciting way - but it probably won't be a big deal later on in your life. And definitely don't worry about her. She almost certainly wouldn't be dating you if she didn't plan on kissing with you, so you might as well just do it :) Have fun!

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  • IIN2?uestionlife

    Your over thinking it man this isnt the kiddie pool where you walk in step by step your past that you guys are dating!! This is the part where you just dive in

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  • WonderGuy0103

    How old are you? If you're still in middle school, or even high school, then you're normal and it's fine to wait to even kiss.

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    • Desidude

      Just graduated but going to the same college

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  • pantsoffdanceoff

    It will be strange at first, your first of each and every act. You just have to let it go and not to be too harsh or analytic of yourself. There it becomes exciting. And to hell with the ill notions that experience equals how good you are- a person with a lot can still be awful. In fact I have met more people who were just that... I suspect it is because they took their numbers as a badge that meant they must have it down right. Little to none communication does that, or ego. Not to say confidence is a bad thing.

    My advice is to simply spend time with her as you have. A move doesn't have to be now or next month, it will gradually happen. Diving in? No, no, no. If you truly want to just get it over at least be comfortable to laugh it off with one another about each others mistakes or whatbeit. Hold hands, be close (modest contact is good), never overbearing, read her body language and stimulate her mind. Discuss it, have fun, savor the moments. Essentially the stronger the bond&chemistry the better the experience for you both; physically, emotionally.

    It is not as difficult as you may it out to be. You'll get it :)

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    • Desidude

      Ok I just wanted to make sure that she wouldn't lose interest kinda thing by waiting for too long if that makes any sense

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      • pantsoffdanceoff

        Oh, well then no. That alone should not be enough to sway her interest in you. But I can't be entirely certain seeing as I do not know her.

        Would it make it easier if you were to ask her if you may kiss her?

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  • qld37

    Move in slowly, closing your eyes. Slow enough to allow her to pull away if she's not ready.

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  • LAR23

    Take it easy, the only important thing is what feels right. Especially since you're kind of inexperienced. Maybe she's nervous as well, you might want to bring up the topic in conversation to see how she feels. It's possible she's waiting for it! Then again she might not be ready, so if you try it you might want to give her time to react so she can either stop or encourage you

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  • shamzyosmiley

    Go for it, if you really like her!
    she is probably thinking why your taking so long, do it before its to late

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