Is it normal my girlfriend...

My girl friend after two years decides that doing "sexual" stuff is now wrong...

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17% Normal
Based on 182 votes (31 yes)
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  • bazwell

    Try and understand where her new convictions are coming from. Is she saying this because of new or rediscovered religious ideas? Is she trying to avoid being sexual because of something that happened between both of you sexually? What about her. I don't mean to alarm you, but sometimes, people who have been violated (raped) may become obsessed with controlling access because of that feeling that they infact do not have control over who "takes" it. This is not a conscious decision for these individuals, it is an instinctive, self-preservative action.

    I'd encourage you to talk to her and express your shock at the sudden nature of her request. Be supportive and let her know that you will love her with or without sex (only if this is in fact true for you). Then give her space to get through what is obviously a tough time for her.

    best of luck to you

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  • cmoney

    Hey guys thanks for all the help idk what to do yet I'll talk to her about it though

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  • MrsAdams

    If you have been intimate for 2 years and now she is claiming it's wrong then something is up. Maybe she has fallen out of whatever feelings she had for you. Maybe she has been with someone else.

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  • lsatman

    she is not loving you anymore, which is a sign. you should be careful.

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  • Big-Bud

    Get out now...

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  • kalifornia

    U should break up with her shes probly cheeting on u

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  • neskic

    Maybe because of new religious ideas? Or she pregnant and scared? Or cheat on you? Or made a stupid "dare" with her friends ? -hope for you she not definitive about it..

    Or did u make something wrong? Suggest she isnt good at sex? (maybe someone else did). Or suggest something she is not ready to?

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  • softballfaith24

    She is cheating on you witha sexier person

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  • Scrat

    Lol

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  • chanchita1

    Jhovanny?

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  • benhead2010

    Maybe she found someone else

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  • heyabbi

    I did this when I started liking someone else. maybe they're just moving on and they don't want to break up with you.

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  • bobs5

    Think either she had been or is with someone else or is trying to make you break up with her.

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  • fdmcerberus

    What's the point of having a girlfriend if you're not doing "sexual" stuff with her? Let her go.

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