Is it normal my girl doesn't want to have sex till she wants a kid?

Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for 7 months now who i love with all my heart, and like any relationship we go threw rough patchs we started having sex at 5 months and everything seemed to be going fine, then she comes out of no where and she says she wants to take a month break... I said ok whatever a month later she tells me she doesn't want to have sex anymore untill she us ready for a kid which would be 6 or more years IIN? she made me stop smoking bud, I can't get any more tattoos she says so I have no flipping stress reliver what do I do??????

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Comments ( 18 )
  • You should stand up for yourself, she can't just make you quit doing everything you enjoy because she doesn't like it.

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  • BannerMan

    I got three word for you Fuck That Bitch she crossed the line at stopping bud

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  • cupcake_wants

    Damn, dont b so whipped

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  • Hippie

    Have a talk with her, i say.
    Negotiate. She's taking sex, weed, and tatts. Sooo... unless she's giving you any privileges you didn't mention, you should at least get your weed back. I mean damn. Let her make her rules, but not ALL the rules.

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  • SceedarMoon

    I could never be with someone who told me to stop doing the things i love. Even if it is smoking pot haha. I could understand if it was harmful and yes smoking weed is harmful but smoking a joint every once in a while isnt gonna kill you. And as for the tattoos its your body dude do what you want. Not having less tattos doesnt make you a better person so why change? And the sex part i think you should respect her choice and wait until she is ready. She might say she is going to wait 6 years but she will probably break down and give it up.

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  • Ratso

    Oh no u lost the marijuana.

    But tell her u dont want to wait and explain y. Maybe she'll rethink

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  • scheinwelt

    i have the opposite problem. we have a baby- my wife and i were decided to go for a second baby this year.but her father decided that it was impractical! and she obeys everything he says! so we have to fuck with condoms all the time. my advice- if you are not ready to be a father ,dont agree. dont let her push you into anything. let her go- you will find someone else. Plus its the religous thing maybe- i went through that trauma with my parents. don't give birth to a kid until you are responsible enough to bring him up. and sorry to say that means a monagamous relationship.

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  • DannyKanes

    I think you and her need a serious talk about your relationship, good luck

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  • Well if the vagina is closed for repairs... take door# 2. I bet she'll open door # 1 back up real quick. smoke your buds and while youre at it slip her a mickey. She needs to loosen up, plus she'll need it for the butt sex.

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  • missmeow

    ^LOL. Go with that advice.

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    • MaximumCntrol

      LMAOOO

      You're cool as hell Missmeow!

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  • sparrowfeed

    well, your girls' right about bud: it shouldn't be a stress reliever. i told my boyfriend to stop smoking bud, too. what's wrong with you men!?!? don't you know YOU are the primary cause of our stress! you just don't know what's good for you.

    but your girlfriend withholding sex for that long is just plain fucking crazy. i feel bad both for you AND her. she won't hold off for that long.. i guarantee.

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  • johnvericson

    YUK. dump that bitch. sex is life.

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  • CDmale4fem

    I think she had someone else she was seeing, since this post is 5 yrs old. I think her bf took care of her and she wanted a better sex life outside of the relationship she was in. Or maybe he was lousy in the sack.

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  • oneifthesedays1980

    Holy crap dude you better get out while the gettin's good!!!

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  • joemommamia

    you are not going to be a father!

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  • one_guy

    And if no cooperation from the advice can you say NEXT??

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  • blndgrl18

    I'm not really sure why you added the information about the marijuana and tattoos? Did she stop making you do these things because she is afraid it will harm the baby she is hoping to receive? I'm so confused. But, I can see why she would be hesitant to have sex if she wasn't going to get a baby out of it. I went through a phase where the only thing I wanted was a baby, every month I would hope I had conceived. It came to a point where I didn't want to even have sex because I felt it was pointless if I wasn't going to get what I want. But, it is unfair to you that she expects you to not have sex for, what did you say six years?

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