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My 30 yr old gf thinks she can get pregnant through her clothes . We don’t have sex but we make out. Someone she knows told her she can get pregnant by us making out and she believes them . She is a little weird but WTF, is she really that stupid. What can I do to convince her this is false ?
If a 30 year old thinks that, especially in the age of Google, then you and your girlfriend are probably really 10 0r 11 not 30. Or you are just trolling.
At 30 years old, she should be more aware of her body and tge repercussions of an intimate relationship, even if she has chosen to abstain from all things sexual, at 30 years old she really should have armed herself with the necessary information.
Maybe she is using this as a modesty shield or a means to slow things down. Communication is the key to any good relationship, maybe she is hesitant about taking things further with you.
The possibilities as I see them:
1) Your girlfriend has an IQ in the mid-double digits and so you doing anything even vaguely sexual with her is at least borderline abusive because she's intellectually incapable of giving consent.
2) She lives in a cave without internet access, she's never been at all interested in learning anything factual about sex and her body, she's incredibly gullible and she has some really stupid friends.
3) You're a fucking liar, her true age is some small fraction of 30, and you are the same age.
4) She has a pathological fear of getting pregnant, possibly instilled her by her parents or religious fruitcakes who have convinced her that evil sperm are capable of burrowing through layers of clothing in their attempt to bring shame on women.
5) She isn't all that stupid, she knows what she's told you is utter BS, she just doesn't want to mess around with you but she's afraid to tell you that.
6) You're a troll.
As for how you can convince her that what she believes isn't possible, you simply can't do this because proving a negative is impossible. There's nothing you can say or do, no evidence you can present to her, that would prove that, never once in the entire history of the human species did a single brave and determined sperm manage to work it's way through damp clothing, blindly navigate it's way along the vulva to the entrance of the vagina, then swim up the vagina, into a fallopian tube and finally encounter an ovum that was ripe for fertilisation.
You could present her with evidence from credible websites which talk about how long sperm are viable once ejaculated, how far they can travel before their energy store runs out, how quickly they lose viability outside a vagina, and so on. But if she doesn't want to believe you (and let's face it, why should she believe someone who is hardly an uninterested party?) then she won't believe you.
You missed one Boojum, she's a sex addict and knows humping outside her clothing will get her aroused enough to shed the clothes and do the real thing this increasing the chance of getting pregnant.
I at one time thought and kind of still do, that a bottle of tequila can get you pregnant
My friend actually did get pregnant through clothes but it involved him in boxers and her in underwear.