Is it normal my gf says she has fears of falling in love

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My GF after we started some months ago now started being cold and she explained that she has fears of loving again, fears of getting heartbreak, fears of trust and more and its because of her past relationships that went bad for her. what can i do?

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  • Nikclaire
    4 years ago

    The only thing you can do is be consistant. Don't change for her baggage. Just consistantly be yourself. If it works out, great. If not, it's not the end of the world.

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  • dimwitted
    4 years ago

    Be patient. She's obviously been through some shit.

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    • Brave
      4 years ago

      yeah but its actually hard to cope with that, hmmm

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      • Ichabuskene
        4 years ago

        How much do you like this girl?

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        • Brave
          4 years ago

          more than I can quantify

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  • Eezer
    4 years ago

    You have to decide if waiting is worth it. Patience will pay off, but it’s about you.

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  • cupcake_wants
    4 years ago

    She has emotional baggage, you got work to do. Maybe she needs therapy

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Work on it. Give it time. Lots of women are emotional like her and don't want to advance things. You have to gradually work on showing her that she can trust you.

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