Is it normal my gf explodes over small mistakes?

We're talking about things like.

- 2 or 3 plastic bags on the kitchen counter after I put away the groceries

- Bad body language like crossed arms or my wrists hanging at a 90 degree angle

- Hairs being left on the floor after I have swept the floor

The degree of upset she gets is where she will start swearing at me and insulting me despite myself offering to fix it up.
In her own words "Why can't you just do it right first time, you fuck?"

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  • She’s a bitch

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  • e51pegasi

    She sounds like a real treasure.

    I wouldn't even let my own mother talk to me like that.

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  • nikkiclaire

    It's normal for people to do this once they have reached the end of their tether. She is about to move on, be prepared.

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    • Nickvey

      picking a fight is one way to end a relationship. i got out of a marriage one time by saying " its simply beyond my control we must divorse i can't be married and it worked. she was even willing to let me have sex with other women so long as i wasnt infecting her with a disease, can you believe that? Man , talk about desperate. but name calling , not my style she should just walk away . or ask him to leave.

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    Tell her to calm down and quit cussing you out for something that small. Don't hesitate to leave if she doesn't care. This is in no way normal.

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  • lonewolf1253

    I have only this to say. Run like hell! Don't look back!

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  • Dustyair

    Wow, she sounds mean. I would never take, nor give that out in a relationship.

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  • Had a girlfriend like that. Shortest relationship of my entire life and I still regret every minute of it. Will never ever do it again. I thought she'll change, but she didn't, so the very first sign was more than enough to save me from that bitch, although I ignored it. Lesson learned: Any person who talks to me like that will be out of my life immediately, with no excuses and no forgiveness. Up to you if you want to be treated like garbage, but I don't care about no stress, no mental illness and no excuses they might have. Enough said.
    PS. Very abnormal by the way.

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  • EccentricWeird

    Angry sex = best sex?

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    • RoseIsabella

      Beast sex?

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    • Or extremely scary and painfulness.

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      • EccentricWeird

        What would you know??

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        • Alot actually. Not that I’d care to go into on an online forum though.

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          • EccentricWeird

            You can't even spell right. You shouldn't be having the sex.

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            • I’m 17 actually. And it wasn’t exactly my choice, but whatever.

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    • JonathanOo

      Lol

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  • Next time she explodes tell her you ain’t cleaning it up.

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  • RoseIsabella

    She sounds really mean.

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    • rayb12

      ...

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      • RoseIsabella

        Well, I dunno why he's with her. I guess people stay with partners who don't treat them well out of a fear of being alone. I'm so tired of saying this to like every person with these problems, but it would of course be a good idea to leave the mean girlfriend.

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        • rayb12

          No I just find it amusing how if a guy so much as masutbates, or enjoys being dominant sexually with a consenting partner, its "run away from this disgusting loser abusive expletive etc." But when a girl is literally behaving in a horrible abusive way. Its this nonchalant "she sounds really mean" and then now of course talking about it as if its the guy's issue for being with her.

          We've been in this circle many times before and I'm leaving this site so going to say one last time.

          You would say women are as powerful if not in ways better than men. But do you really believe this.

          You view men as having agency and women as victims over and over and you speak with such harsh words of men and such a softer attitude to women. And I really think you don't see how men are equally emotional and are not better than you or stronger than you. Maybe you will never get this.

          I really hope things turn around for you Rose, its your life. But I think its too short to carry on so angry and at people you don't even know just because they share the gender of individuals who hurt you.
          Its absolutely ridiculous and brings YOU down.

          And of course I personally get offended by these assumptions you make about guys as I've said before. But I also do like you and don't want you to be living with so much hate. So for both reasons I really encourage you to seriously think about how you really view men and women and the amount of agency responsibility and emotional resilience they have and if you are in your heart really being fair and even.
          Because we aren't monsters dude

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          • RoseIsabella

            Stop projecting your stuff onto me. We've all got our issues here, and it's obvious I'm not the only person with issues.

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            • rayb12

              OK. And yeah obviously projecting very heavily lol will not deny this

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  • Boojum

    That sounds very controlling and disrespectful. I'd never address a partner as "you fuck", and I wouldn't tolerate being spoken to that way. Nor would I ever criticize a partner's "bad body language".

    I'm inclined to agree with nikkiclaire: things don't look good in the medium to long term. It sounds like she's reached the stage where everything you do is seen in the worst possible light, she looks for things to criticize, and nothing you do is ever right. The next phase is her concluding she's too good to live with a total shit like you.

    The only possible justification I can see for her being like that is if you talk to her in a similar way. Some couples bicker because they don't know how to interact in more mature, caring, and positive ways. Those relationship generally don't last long because no relationship can if there's a genuine lack of respect.

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  • FrankBlanket

    I dated a girl who would be pissed the entire day if I did something wrong.

    One time I was taking her to an upscale sushi place and I missed the bus (comes every 20mins) by accident and she cussed me out and gave me attitude the whole day, and when we went to the restaurant she still gave me attitude and wouldn't even talk to me. I spent $60 on our meal and she didn't even say thanks, all because we missed the bus.

    Lose that bitch.

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  • BlueAlice

    She more than likely has Borderline Personality Disorder... The only thing I can suggest is trying to beat her at her own game, ending the relationship then blocking her from any and all avenues of contact

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  • CDmale4fem

    I agree with a few comments. She probably for some reason(s) not happy within the relationship. Or she's having a hard time at work. But there's no excuse to treat "loved ones" like that. Are you m or f ? Same age as gf or who's older ? I know many older in a relationship just feel a sense of entitlement to treat others like shit. Like someone else said, our your broom down, turn walk out front door and run like hell. don't look back.

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  • Nickvey

    wow , that one girl that puts the C in front of UNT. it probably best you find your next girlfriend while you have a window of opportunity. Sleep with the next one and if you get a disease , share it with old grumpy pants. its terrible immoral to do this but not entirely illegal. And i might add its done to guys like almost every time. Im not saying you should go looking for somthing like that to happen , im just saying its better to find your next girlfriend now and if you do catch a illness you have that opportunity to share the misery so to speak. Also it give her a real reason to leave you , not just a few hairs left on a floor. think of the memories you make today and how good they will be in 40 years.

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  • SrEdRuM

    you sound Mentally insane!

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