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She is 18 and virgin. We have had a lots and lots of phone sex.. But she is afraid of having sex as some of her friends told her it'll pain like hell.. Few times we slept together but the only thing we did was, she was naked, me in boxer, and she told me to rub my boxer against her. That time i tried to slip a finger or 2 in her but stopped me.
I think its very normal not to want to have sex. Feel good moments aside, the bottom line is, it can get someone pregnant and other sharing of STDs can happen too. I'm not saying you aren't clean, I'm just saying lots of people ignore or don't care as much about these factors as they should. Don't want a baby? Don't put the war staff into the mana pool, simple.
However, it sounds like she wants you to do things to her while not wanting to do much for you. Sounds a little unfair here, I think this needs to be brought up with her. There are safe alternatives so she doesn't need to be so strict.
My last girlfriend was like this. Some of her (idiot) girlfriends, told her it would hurt like hell, so she was afraid! I had to go through a lot of talking and assuring her that things will be ok. (She never had sex too.) Things did work out, but I needed about a year to convince her! I did get a few blowjobs, but never sex, till the end of 12th grade! On the second prom night she finally gave in! Oh joy of joys...
I still miss her a bit. We were together for three years.
PS: I also told her girlfriends (multiple times) that they were babbling, mumbling idiot bitches!
When you have sex with a female you break her hymen. So yeah it might hurt some women. Some women do report it hurting. Also parradiddle had a good point with the STDs, getting pregnant and everything with his comment.
Agh I had a gf like this when I was younger, it ended in sexual frustration and chaffage!
also she ignored me while i tried to do liplock after i ate her.. She gave me HJ but Didnt cared if i needed BJ.